Hey guys, so here’s a brief summary on my relationship, it’s been going on for almost 2 yrs but during those 2 years my bf left me for another girl. I cried for him for months and wanted him back and we got together but it’s like now, I can’t keep on with this relationship anymore. He’s crazy and possessive bc he’s scared I’ll do the same thing, I’ve tried to break up with him but it’s always “I’ll just kill my self hope you feel better” and I always go running after him bc I worry and he never does it or he hurts himself. He doesn’t have a job or a car or any money and I’m not materialistic but I’ve been working trying to build my life together and I explain him that and he just calls me a sheep and how he can make way more money than I and idk it just gets really bad... I met someone else and I’ve been seeing him bc we both want the same things in life. We just want to build together, I feel bad I really do but I haven’t been happy in my relationship for months on... I tried to stay but I can’t deal with him calling and crying every hour-2 even when I’m at work and I. Can’t deal wirh him trying to kill him self every single time, this guy is sweet he has a good heart but when it comes to arguments he threatens to kill him self and it just brings me and my spirit down...
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You KNOW you cant live like this forever
you KNOW you need to end this, so you may as well do it now, rather than waste any more of your life with this guy, and start living your life, the way you want to, for you.
You need to sever ties with him, completely.
That means explaining to him, that its over, his constant threats have killed the relationship and that you hope he gets the help he needs, but the relationship is over.
Change your number, block him on all social media. Tell your work you will not accept ant calls from him.
If he tries to contact you, call the police
if he threatens to kill himself, call his parents
This needs to end
That is emotional blackmail and a bad reason to stay with someone.
Alright then.....now that you've given all these details, what exactly is your question?
Break up with him and don't have any contact with him. He's manipulating you and you're allowing it to happen. Don't answer his calls, don't respond to his texts, block him if you need to, but end it.