My Fiancé and pictures of her ex..?
We moved into our own place two months ago and came accrossed pictures from her past relationship. Obviously I didn't like it and asked her to get rid of them because we are starting out life together. She agreed and got rid of all of them.. I thought.
Today while looking for some clean underwear hoping I mixed mine up with hers I found several of them tucked away.
Should I be pissed that she straight up lied to me about getting rid of them? Should I be worried. They split because he went to jail she became lonely met me and moved on, they were engaged just like we are today.
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I understand that her keeping the pics upset you, but it was a part of her life. Neither her nor you were born the day you met the other. You lived separate lives and met other people before meeting each other. I do not think it is wrong that she wanted to keep a little reminder of her past. I do not think that you should have asked her to get rid of the pictures in the first place. She would have done that on her own when she felt ready to do so. I think that you feel insecure in the relationship, and that is an issue of yours that you need to confront and you should not make her feel like it is her fault. What is really bothering you is that you think she still has feelings for her ex. Confront her about that, and if she does then you should allow her time alone to sort out her feelings and you should move on if necessary.