I am having a hard time not thinking daily about my girlfriend sleeping with another guy while we were broken up. Any tips? ?
We were together for 3 years but I started getting too comfortable and started to treat her a bit poorly. We ended things but got back together a few weeks later to give it another shot. I asked and she told me she slept with another guy. Everything js better now and I am treated her better since I know I took her for granted. How do I get passed this? We have been back together for about 9 months now but I seem to think about it daily.
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That may be a warning sign. You need to analyze what causes your insecurity and deal with it.
I partially agree with these other answers. But, nothing just happens. The person she slept with will have been trying it on with her for months and when they split he will have purposely went for it and probably didn't even want a relationship.
When everyone is younger they don't think of the consequences so everyone's at fault. If you can't be at peace, you'll drive yourself to hating her and your life/relationship. Ur only option is to find someone else ASAP and don't Fk it up.
It's good that you recognize that you f*cked up, but you also need to recognize the second part that goes along with this break up.. It's that whatever she does while you're not together is none of your business.. Remember a woman is never really yours, its just your turn, and while you were apart it was his turn... and in the future, it will inevitably be someone elses turn because this sounds like a relationship where you are being used for your resources.. Listen, if that dude she slept with gave her A1 pipe, she's definitely thinking about going back to it some time in the future.. women are opportunistic. You need to go to watch winningwithwomen or Darius M on YouTube because you sound like a real simp and this woman is using you.
You took her for granted, treated her poorly, broke up, then asked her if she slept with someone else after you ended things. You literally asked for this. I don't blame her for seeking affection and attention from another man once she was single again. I don't know if you can get past this - only you can decide that. If you can't, then let her go for good because it sounds like she's much better off without you to be honest.