My first boyfriend recently just broke up with me because he found that a sent an *** pic to another guy. I feel like this was meant to be because he’s going to military school and it’s better for him to enter his first year without a girlfriend. But I love him so much and I regret what I did. I made a mistake and I’ve learned from it. We’ve dated for 2 months and I asked him to take me back. He’s going to be super busy and he won’t even have time to use his phone while he’s there for 8 months. I told him that during these 8 months, if I don’t mess or date other guys and wait for you, will you give me a second chance? He said “Maybe. It’s not a no, but I’m not going to promise anything. I don’t know how I’ll feel in 8 months.” I’m willing to wait for him because I think he’s worth the wait. But I don’t want to wait for him the entire 8 months and find out that he’s lost feelings for me. He comes home during holidays, such as thanksgiving and winter break. Should I not talk to him for a few months and then during thanksgiving break when he comes home, ask if that “maybe” is still a Maybe or if it’s a no now?
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I do not think that you should be running your entire social life on the basis of a very uncertain situation like this one. You're letting this guy control you when he's not even saying that he really wants to bother with you again, and when he's going to be living elsewhere for the foreseeable future anyway.
It doesn't sound to me as though this relationship is meant to be -- not right now, at least. I think you should move forward on the assumption that it's over. Who knows? Maybe at some point in the future, it will work out, but don't assume that it will. Make a life for yourself that does NOT involve waiting on some guy to say something more than "Maybe".
You wont wait, sorry but you couldn't behave during the first 2 months, you certainly wont behave while he is gone. I know, you think you will wait and all that jazz, I have seen it a million times with young people when one goes off to college or into the military. It doesn't work out more then it does. But don't worry about it, he'll be gone for training, come back for a week or two while waiting to ship out to wherever. Keep the thoughts alive and when he comes home for that short break, have some fun with him, have some fun whenever he comes home for break. It's nice, makes memories, is enjoyable, and you can keep it light and such.
i wouldn't get your hopes up.
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