God’s involvement in human affairs is very rare. God doesn't watch each and every human being at the same time and cannot live with each and everyone to guide them. These works are done by the spirits. God had created different kinds of spirits for various purposes. He had made the spirits to watch, guide and determine the destiny of the human beings from their daily activities, talks and thoughts too. Your past determines your present and your present determines your future. God has given freewill to all creatures including human beings. According to this, all human beings have all right to live a life as they wish. But if it happens to be bad and hurts someone, they have to face the consequences. These consequences are created by spirits. It's a natural system. After death no one lives in any form. Heaven and hell are only for spirits, not for human beings. God is a mystery even to the spirits. Spirits are not eternal beings but their lifetime is long. Spirits are separate elements. A human being during his/her lifetime is living with many spirits which have joined one by one since birth. They are knowledge, skills, feelings, emotions, interests and everything. These spirits are your consciousnesses and memories. Even thoughts are not your own. For example, when you want to take a decision on a subject, one after another the spirits think and you just listen, choose or reject the ideas which they transmit to your mind through your brain in the form of thoughts. Brain is just a media to connect the spirits to your mind. A mind is just a computer's mind. A mind is you. After the destruction of a computer completely you will not get it's mind. The same is the case with the human beings.  A human being doesn't have a spiritual body. Soul is nothing but an energy needed for the functionality of a body. It is not a spirit or anything else. A body's functionality is based on the auto mechanism.  After death all spirits which accompanied a person quit and go to different places searching new bodies. No one lives in any form after death. All human beings are just robots made of flesh and bones and toys of the spirits for their games.

There is no hell or heaven for human beings. They are only for spirits. I guess that the heaven is just the sky and hell is the prison for spirits. Good spirits are free to go anywhere in the sky but bad spirits are put in prison for certain years. I guess that certain evil spirits are destroyed completely. Spirits' lifetime is limited. If what they (spirits) have said is true then they live approximately for 400 to 500 years. This is close to the Indian Hindu's belief that a human being has seven births. That means Hindus believe in reincarnation but I don't.

REINCARNATION

I was believing in reincarnation for many years but after I have started to hear the spirits’ voices inside my head in the year 1983 (age 32) and after observing their conversations for years and after knowing the fundamental things about computers, I have come to a conclusion that all human beings are just robots made of flesh and bones and toys of the spirits for their games and there is no reincarnation.

To form a reincarnation all spirits which lived with a body must possess another person together. Then only he/she can feel the same person who died. But this is not happening because the spirits never stay together to haunt or possess another. They go searching new bodies. Rarely there might have been certain cases but I think they have changed after some time. I mean, they (humans) didn't able to remember anything after certain age. Spirits during their life time live with many bodies (one after another). Their memories sometimes affect the person. This is natural. This is not enough to believe that there is rebirth. No one returns after death. All human beings’ lives end with their own bodies.

There is always a common fate which is always applicable to all creatures including human beings. That is, human beings are like other creatures except that they have an additional sense (sixth sense). This sense had changed only the living conditions of the human beings but not the fate. The fate is almost same to all creatures including human beings.

Where do we really go when we die?  Well, the Bible tells us that at death, the silver cord is loosed, the body goes into the grave (because no flesh and blood can inherit God's kingdom (1 Corinthians 15:50) so our flesh goes to rot (because it's full of sin) (Romans 7:20) and our spirit leaves our body and returns to God who gave it (Ecclesiastes 12:7).  That's when we will be judged.  If we have believed in, received, followed and obeyed, Jesus Christ the Saviour who died for us to get our sins forgiven, then God will judge us by Christ's Righteousness and not our own which is as filthy rags in God's sight (Isaiah 64:6) and because Christ is our covering, our Kinsman Redeemer and Saviour, we will then be admitted into heaven because of His wonderful sacrifice that He was prepared to suffer - being tortured, shedding His precious blood to atone for our sins and even being crucified and dying for us.  If however, we have NOT received the gift of Christ's sacrifice for sins and followed and obeyed Him in this life, then we will be sent to Hell to be tormented in Hell's flames of the lake of fire and brimstone for eternity.  It's entirely our choice.  Anyone who is already in heaven cannot return here and cannot see us or be with us.  As far as location is concerned, we know that it is UP because when Jesus resurrected from the Grave, He ROSE and rising is always UP.  Jesus was taken UP into heaven (Acts 1:2).  When He returns, He will come DOWN to earth. 

The Rainbow is already established as we know.  It is God's Covenant Promise to mankind that He will never again destroy this earth through Flood as He did once before. (Genesis 9: 13 - 17)   Next time God destroys this earth because of all the wickedness, it will be by fire (11 Peter 3: 10 & 11 etc.)

The Bible says that your spirit will go to heaven or hell when you die and your physical body will be buried in the ground. If you memorize the following Bible verse, you will go to heaven.

Humans are made from dust.(Genesis 2:7; 3:19) We are not spirits living in a body of flesh. we are physical creatures, so no part of us survives death. When we die, our brain dies too, and our thoughts perish. Thus, Lazarus said nothing about his experience of death because the dead are unconscious. read Psalm 146: 4; Ecclesiastes 9:5,6,10. Dose God torment people with fire after death? since the Bible shows that the dead are unconscious, hellfire is clearly a false teaching that slanders God The very idea of tormenting people with fire dis disgusts him. Read 7:31.                WHO WILL RETUN TO LIFE? Many millions of people who are dead in the grave will return to life on earth. Even some who did not know Gog and who practiced bad things will be resurrected. Read Luke 23; 43;  acts 24:15.    resurrected ones will be able to learn the truth about God and to exercise faith in Jesus by obeying him. (revelation 20:11-13) those who return to life and do good things will be able to enjoy life and do good things will be able to enjoy life on earth. Read John 5:28,29 JW.ORG

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your youngest daughter.

After the flesh body dies a person returns to God in their Spirit body.

There is a life after this one. It will be much better then what we have now.

Ecclesiastes 12:7 "Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.”

1 Corinthians 15:44 "It is sown a natural body; it is raised a spiritual body. There is a natural body, and there is a spiritual body."

Heaven is not so much a "place" as a state of existence. It its not within the physical universe. At the moment of the death of our biological body, we appear before God, and are allowed to proceed to the final existence we have freely chosen during our life on Earth - Heaven or Hell.

I am so sorry to hear that you lost your daughter. The bible tells us at Ecclesiastes 9 vs 5...the dead know nothing at all... Psalms 146 vs 4 says when a person die...their spirit goes out, they return to the ground, on that very day their thoughts perish... Therefore, when we die we are simply dead in our grave. Your daughter is simply sleeping in her grave. In the bible death is liken to sleep because God will soon call people out of the grave just as a person is awakens from sleep. John 5 vs 28 says ..The hour is coming In which those in the grave will hear Jesus voice and come out... Then will be the fulfillment of Revelation 21 vs 4....and death will be no more...neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore... Wouldn't you like to be there to welcome your daughter back to life on a paradise earth? Yes, the earth will be a paradise when God gets rid of wickedness and all the problems we are facing today. Wouldnt you like to know more? Please visit jw.org. There you may also read and study the bible online.

Nobody but God knows, and He speaks about it in ancient scripture

TEXT 5: And whoever, at the end of his life, quits his body remembering Me alone at once attains My nature. Of this there is no doubt.

TEXT 6: Whatever state of being one remembers when he quits his body, O son of ****ī, that state he will attain without fail.

Christians say it is either heaven or hell for eternity, which makes no sense, lucky there are other and better scriptures available for those who want to know the truth. 

Eastbourne.....

For most of us it's either to a crematorium or a cemetery.