What’s it mean if girl contacts you after not texting her for a few days ?
Been seeing a girl for a month, we hold hands, cuddle, & kissed a few times. She said she likes me but has her guard up because she’s been played a lot.
But recently she’s been giving one word answers and hasn’t been texting me so I just don’t text her anymore.
Today she posted that she’s better off alone because games are being played. Then sent me a Message which I didn’t open yet.
What do I do & why’s she like this ?
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She feels you are not being genuine.
Whether or not you ARE being genuine is not the point .. what matters is how SHE interprets what you do.
And she has effectively broken up with you.
Look .. relationships are THE hardest thing to make work. And they only work when both parties are emotionally mature and emotionally stable .. able to communicate, able to handle their own emotions, able to move past their fear (everyone is afraid of getting hurt when it comes to love).
She is not that person, so it never was going to work out.
It takes AT LEAST 1-2 years of steady dating .. of seeing how people handle situations and what choices they make .. before you know if they are a "safe bet" with your heart.
She has told you to leave her alone.
So you leave her alone.
If, by chance, this new message you haven't opened is a turn-around and now she doesn't want to be alone .. you STILL need to leave her alone. People who do not know how they feel, or how change their feelings back and forth, are also NOT going to be able to make a relationship work.,
So unless you welcome heartbreak, get out before you are too attached.