I have been with my wife for 30 years, and have two great children… Now, I have several different jobs/ventures which requires me to work late and all kind of hours, and I deal with certain people which require confidentiality… For the safety of me and my family…

Now, some of these ventures include waste management, strip clubs, etc… and these guys are partiers, and sometimes it is expected that I behave a certain way. Now in the past, my wife was understanding of my “guma’s” as in she just kind of turned her head the other way…

Well, I started to feel guilty about dating this young Russian girl so I broke it off with her… (that was a couple of years ago, and she did not take it well).

Well, my Uncle, who is under house arrest and not doing too good, needed a care taker. So I remember I used this other Russian girl (a friend of hers) to take care of mother after she had to leave the nursing home for trying to have me whacked… And I remember her being very good and was even understanding when my sister tried to steal her prosthetic leg.

Well we got to drinking one day, and we ended up banging out on my uncle’s couch… Well, my original young Russian girl found out, got drunk and called my wife and told her about us…

Which my wife kind of knew about, but now she is really flipping out. She threw me out and said that she wants a divorce. But I don’t get it, she always kind of knew about it… why get so mad now? Is it because she called the house and spoke to my son?

Any advice to fix this? Like can I buy her something to smooth it over… I don’t know what to do.