I have been with my wife for 30 years, and have two great children… Now, I have several different jobs/ventures which requires me to work late and all kind of hours, and I deal with certain people which require confidentiality… For the safety of me and my family…
Now, some of these ventures include waste management, strip clubs, etc… and these guys are partiers, and sometimes it is expected that I behave a certain way. Now in the past, my wife was understanding of my “guma’s” as in she just kind of turned her head the other way…
Well, I started to feel guilty about dating this young Russian girl so I broke it off with her… (that was a couple of years ago, and she did not take it well).
Well, my Uncle, who is under house arrest and not doing too good, needed a care taker. So I remember I used this other Russian girl (a friend of hers) to take care of mother after she had to leave the nursing home for trying to have me whacked… And I remember her being very good and was even understanding when my sister tried to steal her prosthetic leg.
Well we got to drinking one day, and we ended up banging out on my uncle’s couch… Well, my original young Russian girl found out, got drunk and called my wife and told her about us…
Which my wife kind of knew about, but now she is really flipping out. She threw me out and said that she wants a divorce. But I don’t get it, she always kind of knew about it… why get so mad now? Is it because she called the house and spoke to my son?
Any advice to fix this? Like can I buy her something to smooth it over… I don’t know what to do.
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Okay Tony.....I suggest getting her a beautiful sapphire ring.
I am sorry but there is nothing you can buy a woman to smooth things over. Try understand how she feels she has given you all her best years and probably sees you as the other half of her. She probably had some idea about the other woman but didn't really want to know so that's why you thought she was kind of ok about it. But now she knows for sure because she has been told, those are words that are haunting her. To men sex is physical but for most woman it is emotional especially a woman whom has been faithful and never strayed and feels duped by a man she has considered to be just hers. If the situation was reversed would you not feel hurt and betrayed. The trust she felt for you has gone and her whole world is falling apart, if you really want to make it up to her try doing something that is romantic and takes your time and effort to show her she is the woman who has your heart in her hands. That's all she wants after such a betrayal. I hope you manage to sort things out.
LOL LOL the words Serious Troll come to mind here. But I will play along. Cut down on your "Ventures" tap your wife more and perhaps she will feel a little better about your other activities. And make sure you do it right.
I love your job. Your job really takes places from waste management to strip clubs and everything is so hush hush. So, now you are back to reality, enjoy what you must endure what you can.
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