My girlfriend and fiancée of 5 years was kidnapped 2 months ago. We got her back a week later and I'm extremely happy that she's back. But while she was kidnapped they made her do curtain things I'm not okay with.
She was kidnapped by two of her co workers who are now in jail. But during that week she was with them they made her have sex with them. She told me that she didn't like it at first but by the second and third time she said she started to enjoy it. I ask her if it was rape and she told me yes at first but by the second or third the sex was mutual until the police found them.
She was a virgin and I am a virgin and now I can't look at her the same way. I mean I saved my virginity for her and she gave hers away maybe not by her choice but that didn't stop her from enjoying it.
I know I should just be happy that she's safe and I am it's just bothering me. I waited for my special someone and to hear her say she enjoyed sex with other men makes me sick. It’s like she cheated on me but not really
What do think of my situation? And any advice?
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haha yea right. nice try troll
If this is a real story you and her both need to start seeing a counselor. Go get mental therapy immediately. It was NEVER consensual even if she started liking it. She maybe liked the feeling because she had never had sex before but she didn't want to do it with them. Also kidnapped people have something called "stockholm syndrome" where they start relating to their kidnappers and are brainwashed in a way to start liking the kidnappers. They took her by force and kept her which means all sex she had was RAPE.
You both will only get through this if you get counseling. She needs rape counseling. And you need counseling to deal with what happened to her. Dont get married until you both get counseling.
You know what, it's very typical for "rape" victims to feel pleasure when they're being raped and it's a way for them to protect themselves, kindof like their telling themselves that they're not really being raped so they aren't so scared. I think you both need to see a counselor to deal with this situation. Your girlfriend for sure needs some counseling. I don't think anyone could go through something like that and then just be fine afterwards. There's probably a lot of things she's going through right now that you don't know about and if you really want to be there for her and support her then the best thing you can do is just listen to her feelings, be there for her and encourage her to see a counselor. Although I don't blame you're feelings, I don't think it will help anyone for you to be judgemental right now, go see a counselor.
I understand exactly why you feel the way you do... but it wasn't either of your faults what happened. Many times kidnapping victims start to feel a bond with their kidnapper. It's hard to understand why, but it's common. This doesn't make it any easier for you, but I think to get through this, and for you not to let it make you bitter for the rest of your married life, you should go to counseling together. Talking about it might make it less important, and you can focus on your own relationship and intimacy.
Nice try - so fake...
WOAH DUDE.......................(in a stoners voice)
PIG!!!