I’m 16 and my parents had me when they were 17 and they put me up for adoption when I was a baby. And now I have great parents who actually wanted a child. And I say that because I don’t want to have sex or have a child until I’m married or ready so I don’t have to give my children up.
But to my question a have a girlfriend of 2 years and she’s a very sexual touchy feely type of girl. And I love that. She showed me a website. an “Adult” website and we watched a video. My First(never seen or have done anything sexually like that)Then my girlfriend I made out to it and was so turned on by it
I knew about sexual intercourse already. I’ve had a class about it and my dad and mom have talk to me about it. But I had never seen a girls ***** and all the other things. It been a couple of weeks now and I can’t get it out my mind I walk past any girl and I start think about it. Then I keep having these dreams and know every time I see my girlfriend she gets hotter and I want to make out with her. every time I close my eyes I think about her and all these other girls. I keep getting boners around every girl I’m around. I just want to go back to being normal.
I’m resenting my girlfriend for showing me that site because that’s what started this. And I just want to go back to being normal. I would talk to my parents but my mom is recovering from breast cancer and I don’t want to be selfish with my problems. So if anybody could chime in and help me figure this out that would help a ton. What should I do?
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well the dreams you are having are normal and you will grow out of it eventually so do not be creeped out. talk to your mom she will understand.
i've got some shocking news for you. YOU ARE A NORMAL TEENAGE BOY. ALL YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT ONLY NORMAL, BUT NATURAL. DON'T FEAR YOUR NEW ASPIRATIONS TOWARDS GIRLS, EMBRACE IT. I'm not saying run out and have sex or make babies with everything that has 2 **** and a hole. but there are steps to take to protect yourself. Condoms are absolutely necessary. and asking your girlfriend about her contraception needs is certainly what you need to do. Make sure she is at least on birth control, as she seems familiar in the way of baby making. YOU ARE RIGHT TO WAIT TO HAVE CHILDREN. VERY HONORABLE OF YOU. AND MOST CERTAINLY DON'T HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU ARE READY. have a talk with your girl. be open and honest about your past and why you feel the way you do. Tell her you are not ready for that next step in a serious relationship. Tell her you are not ready for the responsibility of even possibly having children. Tell her you need to focus on other family issues. If you and her are meant to be-that is, if she really and truly loves you, she will understand and respect you for it. I know I would. You sound like a very commendable young man. and in the future you will be a prize for any lucky woman. but moreover, your feelings are normal. and there's nothing wrong with you.
Don't ever be afraid to talk to your parents. They are the ones that know you best and they are the ones that are best suited to give you the most sound advice. Also talk to your girlfriend. Let her know exactly how you are feeling and if you feel that you cant tell her let her read your above question. If she really loves and respects your feelings she will be understanding. If you are not ready to engage in sexual intercourse then Do not do it. Remove yourself from the situation. Also sex can heavily complicate a relationship there are not only physical consequences but emotional ones.
Talk to your mom. She'll be happy to help you. It will take her mind off her own problems.
Boners are normal. Just don't act on it. Or you could be in the same spot your parents were.
I wouldnt worry its completely normal hun
i think you should just try and not think about it too much the more you dwell on it the more it will appear to bother you .. x