I could understand that. Maybe it's not right or wrong but He misses You.

Why does someone have to be right or wrong? It's the way he feels. He has rights to his feelings. And if you think abandoning him often is a good idea, then continue to do it.

I’d call off the wedding if my future wife was taking vacations without me. You should have invited him to come along with you. It’s very sketchy that you didn’t bring him along.

Let’s be honest, you cheated on him while you were on vacation!

He is RIGHT

What are you doing on vacation without him ???

If you're getting married, it would be RED FLAG in my universe, if one goes away for vacations without the other.

Like yesterday, my youngest son was with the family (out of town relatives), while his fiancée went to the beach, not knowing WHY, (my husband and I are glue to each other, we would NEVER be apart), until today, that all the mothers in her family went to the beach leaving the men @ home in their lonesome. They were also in the middle of moving to their condo . . . put everything on hold, while he does all the work? But, it's OK with him!

If it's NOT OK, it's his job to complain or not let it happen! Three vacations without him, he better re-think everything, if this is the future he wants to be in. . . . If that was me, it would be RED FLAG!