Yes, you read it right. My ex-boyfriend, who I dated for 2+ years, left me, for a freshman, who goes to our school, who he is now dating, not even a month after we broke up. We’re both seniors in high school, and I cannot for the life of me, get a grip on this fact.

The reason we broke up was because my boyfriend, or my ex now, hadn't been texting me or calling me lately, because he was always with his friends or doing stuff, and my ex would in general, NEVER have time for me, and it’s not that I’m clingy, we BARELY hung out, or even talked. One day I decided to check his Twitter, I don't use Twitter, so I thought maybe he used it more than I did. When I went on there, I realized he was talking to someone, but I didn't exactly know who. After a while, I realized that he was talking to this girl, who is a damn freshman, more than he was talking to me. I asked some of my ex’s friends and they say that he called her on the phone, Facetimed her, in which we hadn't done in like weeks, and texted her ALL the time, which was completely insulting considering he always had time for her, and not for me. I asked him he liked her, and he said no, I believed him because my ex is not a person to lie. But she was constantly flirting with him on Twitter.

After we broke up, we agreed to just sorta be friends, we talked like every day regularly, just because. Then I got a phone call from his best friend, and he told me he had made out with another girl, who he had cheated on me previously, back in January, while we were in a relationship. Totally disgusted, I called him up and asked him about it and he said something along the lines of “I’m not obligated to answer your questions, we’re not together anymore” which had me taken WAY back, because the way he was speaking to be was utterly rude, and he talked to me as if I was trash.

After this, more secrets came out about the things my ex had did while we were together, in which I wish I wouldn’t have found out about. I later found out that leading up to the breakup, he made out with the freshman girl, not once, not twice, but three times, all in the same month. This was also during the time in which I was really sick, and my ex never bothered to stop by, or even check up on me, but yet he had time to go to the park with his little freshman, which is not even 5 minutes from my damn house.

We broke up the first week of April, and it’s the end of April, and he’s NOW DATING THAT STUPID FRESHMAN, not to mention that the freshman is his best friend’s ex, so I’m not the only person to be hurt by this. I’ve been depressed for the past 2 weeks, I’ve barely been in my classes because I’ve been crying all day, or I’ve been going to the counselor’s office. My ex goes out of his way to dodge me at school, like in the hallways, this was even we were talking regularly on the phone, but it doesn’t matter anymore.

IT upsets me that he’s already dating this damn freshman, not even 3 weeks after we broke up. It upsets me that he put me through all of this, and yet while I’m typing this, he’s probably talking to her, and they’re all laughing and giggling, while I’m sitting her sulking. It’s so hard to get over him, even though he treated me terribly. I just don’t understand how you can date someone for 2 years, and then drop them just like that, for a girl you haven’t even known for a year, even though I’ve known him for 3 years. I can’t even say anything because for one, he doesn’t care, even though he ‘apologized’, obviously he doesn’t mean it because he wouldn’t continue to do the things he’s doing, and the fact that he’s DATING her now? A FRESHMAN? I mean I wouldn’t be as heartbroken if it was a Junior, or even a sophomore? Like it’s a slap to the face, because I don’t understand what she has that I don’t. I never once cheated in our relationship, I was always putting my 100% in the relationship, even when he wasn’t doing anything, I loved him and did things for him always, I cared for him, I even slept with him, 2 months before this even happened because I thought he might be the one, and just to be dropped as if nothing even happened, is killing me inside., I feel like I’ve been used just for the sex, and I need help on how to get over this. I don’t know what I need to do, but I can’t stand being depressed, and crying over a guy that doesn’t give a **** about me anymore, and obviously doesn’t care about my feelings. How would you handle this situation if it were you?

Also, I’ve never said anything to the freshman girl because there’s no need to. All that’s going to happen is she’s going to slap the “Oh, well he left me for you” or “Well he’s mine now”, and to know that she has that right to say it, is just awful.She thinks that I’m supposed to go up to her and tell her all this crap, but it’s like, why should I confront you, when you’re the one OBVIOUSLY in the wrong? Should I even bother with this freshman?