I used to speak to a guy almost every day and we worked together. I hooked up with him twice. We live in different states. With the pandemic it’s really faded away. He would talk about us doing stuff but never happened... I tried to make plans before and he told me he “had to check his calendar” ..... he’s coming to my state in the next few weeks and wants to know what I’m up to and if we can see each other on the first day he’s here... Should I blow him off? We don’t even text at all anymore and it’s like I dont even know him. I just don’t want to feel like I’m leaping to hang out and I dont feel as if he gives anything back..