I used to speak to a guy almost every day and we worked together. I hooked up with him twice. We live in different states. With the pandemic it’s really faded away. I tried to make plans and he told me he “had to check his calendar” ..... he’s coming to my state in the next few weeks and wants to know what I’m up to and if we can see each other on the first day he’s here... Should I blow him off? We don’t even text at all anymore