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Female, 16, High School, UK
so… i really like this guy in my history class, he sits at the same table as me with 2 other people who are okay. hes a year older but i dont think that should matter… i would love to ask him out, or better, for him to ask me out but apparently he is a bit of a 'ladies man' and a ton of girls 'fancy' him too :( including my friend. i really do like this guy, he seems just like a genuinely nice boy…
sometimes when i walk by him i give him a smile and he smiles back and we catch our eyes a lot in class… but other than that, nothing :(
im not a popular girl but im not a complete sado… im nice to everyone around me and dont speak up a lot in class as i am shy and am most comfortable when with my own friends. i havent had a proper boyfriend before, only these two guys about a year ago… i dont know if thats any help!^__^
so my question is…
how do i get this guy to notice me more than the other girls enough for him to consider asking me out?
thank you!
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Aww you got a "Crush" . Its cute but Girl don't do i!. Here's why - You already told us he's a Lady's man ( Man -HOLe!!) And you have little boyfriend experience ( So you'll be an "easy" mark for sure. sorry but there are guys who hon-in on girls like you and play you out -ie. use you or take virginity the leave you, because they can and they are dogs.) Any way I'm not necessarily saying you are an "easy mark" but when you're crushing on some body nothing they do can be wrong. The problem with a " Crush " is if you ever get to be with your " crush " and you find out how he really is, is so disappointing. So many girls find this out the hard way STD or your " Crush " dumb kid.
Plus this attraction appears to be one sided, you see him but you didn't mention him actually seeing you. Also if " Lady's man" and you sit at his table how come he didn't ask you out?
It's great to have a crush but find a normal boy. Usually these one sides crush don't end well. Sorry .Just looking out for you .Good luck.