It is something we enjoy.....a lot.  Would it be different for you if he wore a rubber?  That seems like a reasonable compromise to me.

Learn to use your hands in a way that would make oral a distant 2nd choice for him.  A whole lot of lube and some very practiced skills has put more than one smile on my face.  You can be in total control and give him every sensation he desires by how you use your hands and perhaps introduce a toy of a sort into the play.  Once you have us in the zone we can become very agreeable to stretching the limits of our comfort zone.

Make it fun, make it last.  Make him beg you to stop.

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just explain it to him why u don't want to do it, if he understands good, if he doesn't that's his fault not yours.

 if i was him tomorrow we would be getting a divorce ! in other words

he would be better off with someone else who would make him happy

Tell him the truth.  If you believe that you'll never want to do that, tell him.  He may or may not stay with you.  But lying or "half lying" ia ALWAYS a bad idea.

sometime with condom banana taste,

not every time

Yes other girls do do it but not all of them, if your not willing to do it then that’s your choice and he should respect that,what are your reasons for not wanting to give him it?there’s other ways you can relieve him and in my opinion yes i love a blowj*b but I’d much prefer finishing inside my partner, he should respect your wishes if he’s not happy then let him leave you for the ‘other girls’ you deserve better anyway really

If he is willing to do oral to you then you should be willing to do oral to him. If he says no, then you say no. Works both ways.

Of course you are not wrong. Your boyfriend is wrong to insist. Sex is about enjoyment for both not just him. Maybe you need to look at your entire relationship and see how he treats you overall

No you are not wrong.

No. The only thing wrong is continuing a relationship with a guy that wants to make you do something that he knows you don't want to do. If a guy really loves and respects his girlfriend he doesn't do things like that. But your BF obviously cares about his selfish desires more than he does about your emotional well being. I'm not going to tell you what to do, but I hope you are smart enough to figure it out on your own.