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The only thing I can tell you to insert your finger up there...but it could already be popped. Things like biking and horseback riding can result your hymen popping. I understand though, but I'm sure it will be even more special if you wait for it to pop during intercourse.

go to your doctor or on the web they can show you things that makes sex less painfull but after you get the first time out of the way it becomes enjoyable and sometimes it dosent hurt people so dont try anything until your backed up with data.

Don't mess with your hymen.

i advise you not to but if you want use a dildo that is fully smooth and covered with jell to make it lovely