I was born in the USA but never identified with the culture. my heart just isn´t in American culture... I have studied and taught EFL in Mexico and Spain and I felt a sense of belonging there that I never felt in the USA.
I am so afraid I´ll never be happy. I absolutely can´t stand being an American and know in my heart I wasn´t meant to be American. My problem is that I really think Mexican guys are AMAZING. I would give absolutely anything to be Hispanic so I could date or marry a Mexican guy. I get that i can´t change my nationality but it drives me crazy. I would really like to have a boyfriend but if I were to have a boyfriend or marry, it would have to be an American guy. I´m not racist but they just don´t fill that void in my heart. It just tortures me to want something (a latino boyfriend) that I can never have.
I understand that a relationship between an american girl and a Mexican guy could never work and that the family would treat me like an outsider, that a mexican guy is just not an option for me.
However, I feel like I really have the heart and soul of a Hispanic person and the thought of settling down with an american guy makes my heart sink. I would be so unhappy.
I am having a hard time accepting that I CAN´T have a Mexican guy as a boyfriend or husband, and I feel stuck. What to do?
Update:I can´t stand living in USA and would love to move abroad for good.
I realize that Mexico and spain are different, I lived in both places. I still identify with both cultures because of what they DO have in common.
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I have no idea why you say you would never be accepted by another family or culture. Move to California or Arizona. If you can't find a Mexican-American boyfriend there, then you can't find one anywhere here.
Also, you sure CAN change your nationality. If you think Mexican guys are amazing and you have a Latin soul, move to Mexico! You can become a Mexican citizen and that changes your nationality. Don't live your life being miserable. Be happy!
Agreed with the others. Many hispanic men would be interested in you. There are many Mexican American men who are US citizens and have no problems getting with people of other races. Maybe you are living in the wrong place. Maybe you need to move to Texas, Arizona or California. There's plenty there. While some families might be prejudice, most of them are very welcoming. When I hang out with my mexican friend's families they are always very nice to me.
You can always move to Mexico or Spain. (Although Spain might be harder to move to than Mexico) You could also move somewhere near the border like San Deigo California, so you can visit Mexico frequently.
Also, people from Spain and people from Mexico are different. They don't like being considered the same.
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Your question makes no sense. Why on earth would you have to BE hispanic to date a hispanic guy? You think they care if you're white? Give me a break. If you're that unhappy here in America by all means move to Mexico, do us all a favor.
seriously?
the south american gus that I know always go for Anglo or Non south americna girls
race really isnt going to kill a bond that much
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