Girl likes me but I’m too scared to make a move?
I’ve been talking to this girl and we went on a few dates. She is really flirty with me (keeps hitting me, staring/smiling, teasing me, etc)
I slept over two nights in a row but I didn’t cuddle or kiss or anything. I didn’t want to seem like a f***boy. However we were flirting a lot.
She wants me to come over again and I really want to make a move.. I just don’t know how.
Any tips? I need to do it or else I’ll risk being completely friendzoned. Please help!
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Life is not a 100 yard dash! There is no hurry. Let things happen naturally.
It doesn’t make you a f*uckboy to make a sexual move on her. Quit lying to yourself, son.
If you’re too scared/weak/wimpy to make a move.. if you’re too beta male to make a move.. if you lack the balls or guts to do it... then admit that, BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, and figure out WHY you have a problem of wimpiness.
BUT, don’t pretend that a girl will “dislike it” or that you’ll ”be seen as a f*uckboy”. Because we all know that’s not true. Don’t lie to yourself about your reasons for not making a move.
Let’s not bullsh*t here, dawg. We all know she badly wants you to f*uck her good. That’s why she’s inviting you over AGAIN. So if you don’t make a move then it’s 100% due to you being a p*ussy.
Here’s what makes someone a f*uckboy:
LEADING A GIRL ON. Having sex with a girl AND THEN NOT DATING HER, after you promised her you would.
As long as you aren’t doing that, then it’s fine if you guys have sex. As long as you’re on the same page, then sex is no problem at all, she’ll enjoy it.
Coming from a girl, I can see why you might be scared to make a move. But you have to realize that she might be just as scared as you. The fact that she wants you to come over again means she enjoyed the nights you came over to her house, but now she wants something more than just hanging out (most likely). There is always going to be the risk of being friend zoned no matter how long you wait. Now you finally have a chance to be with her; I say go for it! The longer you wait isn't going to do anything besides make you more nervous and regret not doing it earlier.
It's like running the mile at school. We all dread it, but eventually, it happens, and you're happy you got it over with. If you're that scared, ask her if you can kiss her, before you try and kiss her. That way she won't end up pushing you away.
Why on earth would you spend the night when you didn't even kiss or cuddle? That is just WEIRD.
You slept over TWICE and didn't even try anything? You may not want to seem like a f*ckboy, but right now she's probably wondering if you're gay.
If you don't try anything THIS time, she'll probably never invite you over again and she'll tell everyone that you're a homo.