I love my boyfriend very much, we’ve been together for a year now. Yet i still can’t decipher why his girl friend offered to pay for part of his ticket, i trust him, but something feels fishy about her since she just broke up with her boyfriend, and was talking to him about it . She also mentioned how much she misses my bf along with a bunch of heart emojis😂😅 to the point where she offered that he can stay at her house if he comes. I don’t know i feel like she just feels lonely and is doing it so she can get a rebound. My boyfriend was more civil to her but he also mentioned missing her, and told her jokingly that i’ll kill him if he leaves again to italy. ( left for vacay for 2 months in the beginning of our relationship) and she told him “... what balls ” i need opinions please, i have no one to talk to, and this is my only outlet.
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You need to contact her and lay down the facts as they are
That he is with you and yous are very happy together and
You have noticed her actions and demeanour toward your boyfriend and you think its inappropriate and disrespectful since hes in a relationship and you want it to stop
Its not up to her to buy him a plane ticket and if he wants to fly somewhere, youll pay for it not some other chick
Tell her to stop trying to manipulate him into doing what she wants buy offering him temptations he would find hard to refuse
Her behavior is inappropriate for a man who's in a relationship with another girl and it stops NOW!
Be firm so she gets the message loud and clear
On the surface, it sound like she is laying plans to seduce him and you need to make sure he knows how you feel about it.