Men are simple creatures, we are generally driven by open processes. Where the relationships between men and women break down is in perception. Women are very internal creatures, they perceive meaning in everything that happens. Men just do not think this way. Men often realize that women are having some kind of issue, they then ask the question "What is wrong?". Women feel that if men really understood them they would know what is wrong, and thus wouldn't ask, so they say "Nothing". When a man hears nothing he perceives it in the same way he would from his friends. Okay so nothing is wrong, then we are good. This is where the trouble usually begins, because at this point woman views man as insensitive. The point I am trying to make is that communication is very important. However, you cannot just expect that men understand you, and you cannot think of communication in terms of the way you communicate with other women. Men are much more simple than that in their thinking, when there is problem just tell us. We are not sensitive creatures, but we do have feelings, concern, and love to give. My wife and I have a great relationship, we discuss things and act as partners in all things, but she knows if she has a problem she wants resolved she has to voice it first. Just a perspective from the other side, I hope this helps.
don't whine, don't argue. if he is a "man" he will at least try to understand your feelings. Once men and women really want the same things maybe this question wont get answered anymore. so its not difficult at all to handle a man, at least not to me. if you cant understand me then maybe you can understand being without me.
it is not really difficult to deal with men. you are saying that they don't understand women's feelings at all but you may not know they feel otherwise. it really depends on how you handle the situation. try to understand them first and make them understand you either. you just need to be more open to ideas and different opinions because our uniqueness entails a difference in points of view.
its the way u handle them....i remember some one quoting that 'its not what u say its how u say it'....lots of bitter things can be communicated in the sweetest manner and vice versa.
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Men are simple creatures, we are generally driven by open processes. Where the relationships between men and women break down is in perception. Women are very internal creatures, they perceive meaning in everything that happens. Men just do not think this way. Men often realize that women are having some kind of issue, they then ask the question "What is wrong?". Women feel that if men really understood them they would know what is wrong, and thus wouldn't ask, so they say "Nothing". When a man hears nothing he perceives it in the same way he would from his friends. Okay so nothing is wrong, then we are good. This is where the trouble usually begins, because at this point woman views man as insensitive. The point I am trying to make is that communication is very important. However, you cannot just expect that men understand you, and you cannot think of communication in terms of the way you communicate with other women. Men are much more simple than that in their thinking, when there is problem just tell us. We are not sensitive creatures, but we do have feelings, concern, and love to give. My wife and I have a great relationship, we discuss things and act as partners in all things, but she knows if she has a problem she wants resolved she has to voice it first. Just a perspective from the other side, I hope this helps.
don't whine, don't argue. if he is a "man" he will at least try to understand your feelings. Once men and women really want the same things maybe this question wont get answered anymore. so its not difficult at all to handle a man, at least not to me. if you cant understand me then maybe you can understand being without me.
it is not really difficult to deal with men. you are saying that they don't understand women's feelings at all but you may not know they feel otherwise. it really depends on how you handle the situation. try to understand them first and make them understand you either. you just need to be more open to ideas and different opinions because our uniqueness entails a difference in points of view.
no,we dint understand woman's feelings at all.exactly how the women dint understand why men like guns fires and explosives
its the way u handle them....i remember some one quoting that 'its not what u say its how u say it'....lots of bitter things can be communicated in the sweetest manner and vice versa.
i was wondering the same thing about weman