Why does my bf still keep in contact with ex’s?
My bf and I have been together almost three years, and we have twin baby boys together. I can’t understand why he still keeps in contact with girls he used to talk to... it can be simple as a Facebook poke, sending friend requests. It’s multiple females but the same ones we’ve already talked about ,but it seems like months go by, he won’t and I’m thinking everything’s great, and then out of nowhere it happens again. Obviously he won’t tell me and I look thru his phone to find out. It drives me crazy, and half the time I’m wondering if he’s just playing house or wanting someone else because of it.
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Your boyfriend is a "man-child" he's a little boy who never grew up! He has a girlfriend/fiance (not sure the label) and two small children, yet hes on social media messaging a bunch of his ex's, it comes off as very immature, and shows he doesn't have his priorities together.
He needs a reality check and you need to be the one to give it to him! He needs to know if he wants a family with you that he needs to give up his ex's, no more messaging or flirting with them either in person or over social media, and that if you catch him doing it again he's out the door for good.
Friends were FRIENDS, you don't totally ignore them just because you moved on.
If he had any respect for you and truly cared about you he would gladly give up talking to his exes it wouldn't even be an issue, if it bothers you enough and its something within his power he should be able to do it no problem.. I'm not saying he should do everything you tell him to do, but in this particular case its really a no brainer if you care about someone.. I mean they're his exes for a reason why is he wasting his time entertaining them when he has children to raise.. It would raise a red flag in my head.