Why do some guys not date after a breakup? It’s been five years after breakup.?
We broke up like five years ago and he blocked me like two years after that. He said he lost feelings and broke up with me. But in the five years after our breakup he nvr dated anyone after that. I tried to contact him recently but he just blocked me. I dont get what is going on with him. Do you think he might still be thinking about me?
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Only he has the definitive answer to your question however he may have been so hurt he doesn't want to go through that again. As one that hasn't dated in a very long time I can appreciate what he feels.
For some people it just takes a while to get over someone I guess? Maybe he decided to focus on career for a while, or strengthening relationships in his family?
Why would you think his life decisions are completely centered on you? It may not have anything to do with you at all. Or, you might have influenced him to make this personal decision to simply not date. That doesn't necessarily mean he hasn't been with anybody else. It could be he had one-night-stands, FWBs, or simply just doesn't feel the need to date. Maybe he's focusing on other goals or is probably going through some emotional transformations like stress, depression, anxiety, or maybe he's part of that strange movement of MGTOW. It's possible he's gay? Or maybe you THINK you know he hasn't dated, but his dating life is actually very private.
I will admit, after fives years, and he still feels the need to block you, possibly can suggest he has some negative intense feelings about you.