Dated this guy we got into argument I said some mean petty things because I was hurt. He was calm the entire time. I called him today he listen to my apology but I don’t think he accepted it. I been texting him but he has not responded. I don’t understand why he doesn’t just tell me to move instead of ignoring me. It’s like he want me to chase him r kiss his butt. My thing is if don’t want to speak to someone sure u can ignore them why can’t u just say leave u alone so the person will do that . I don’t know what to believe I don’t know if he’s playing games. Everyone is saying he will be back just give him space. I know it’s men out there that will tell you straight up to leave them alone if they really want that I have a feeling he doesn’t want that he just need space. Please help sorry for the long message
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He IS telling you to move on. You're just not listening.
You hurt him, so, it may be that he is done with you, which means done interacting. Or, he is patiently trying to figure you our, and needs more time. It seems you are the one playing games, acting out your anger in a negative way. Maybe he just does not want to play your game.
*Note We were friends with benefits relationship he wanted a relationship with me I wasn’t ready I can admit Im scared due to get hurt by my cheating ex. This guy was pressuring me into relationship which I was ready . He was talking to another girl which I was fine with since were not official. His phone got turned off for a few days he call when his service came on I guess he told I was going to happy he called. He get mad then texts me he getting engaged. I asked him about it he said I didn’t want a relationship mind u he recently started talking to this girl then tried to make me Jealous he said he was dating her n cheating with me which was a lie. Prior to this day he proposed to me but didn’t accept. He trying to make me upset because I did not agree to be in a relationship. I ask him about the engagement he was like he didn’t propose yet. Mind u he was upset I didn’t respond to him when he text r call the night before this incident occur .