We met each other when I was 15 and he was 19. We had feelings for each other but broke it off before anything really happened because of the age gap. He came back into my life when I ran into him when I was 20 and we dated for about a year and a half before popping the question. We have been engaged for about two months but we haven't set a date. We live together.
I think it's ridiculous for me to actually be pregnant because I'm on the pill and we use condoms and if we don't use one, he pulls out. And that rarely happens anyway. But I definitely have been feeling off lately. I scheduled a doctors appointment and its 3 days from now. So I'm kind of anxious waiting. We were making out and I pulled away and he asked me if everything was alright. And I said yeah. And he kept asking me what was wrong. Then, I couldn't help it, I just burst into tears. Then he held me and calmed me down. When I still wouldn't tell him, he got pretty mad.
Is that unfair to him? I want to talk to him about it really bad, it's been hard for me to keep everything bottled up. But I was role that you're never supposed to tell a guy about pregnancy scares because it causes a ton of problems and I don't wanna stress him out like I am. It's not like he could actually physically do anything for me. Of course I'll tell him after I go to the doctor about everything. But I have 3 days in the mean time and a hurt fiancé, so was I wrong? What should I do?
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Your starting out on the wrong path. You should never hide thing on this level. Buying a pair of shoes yeah you kinda have a choice to tell or not. You don't want to start down this path. When does it stop.
Tell him right now, allow him to be totally in your life. He may feel upset, or he may be excited. Either way you shouldn't have to go though this alone. Its clearly upsetting you, he can see it. One thing you never want to do is allow a mans mind to fill in the blanks.
Good luck
Get a pregnancy test from the pharmacy. It is unfair for him not to know what is bothering the person he loves and not being able to help you. If he loves you stress of a baby wouldn't be too bad he should understand. It's also not fair for u to be the only one stressed out. Remember thT u both lay to have sex and there is always a risk of pregnancy. Be patient and be as smooth as possible always try to be optimistic you never know maybe ur not even preggo and u just caused an uncalled argument. Try telling him he should support u because you will become his wife soon good luck