My mother's tone with me has been cold and clipped. She doesn't look me in the eye when she speaks to me. She calls on my other siblings affectionately, but not me. I hate it. It keeps me up at night. I cry myself to sleep every night. She is the only person I love in the world. The only one. And she's cold to me.
I run to the bathroom in the day cause I need to cry. My throat is always sore because it's strained from the soundless screaming at night and crying. How can I deal with this? I'm crying right now. I just..don't know! I hate it. I just.. Want a way to deal with it. To stop feeling the sadness. To stop the urge to cry.
She accused me of something I NEVER WOULD EVER IN MY ENTIRE LIFE AND AFTER DO. When I tell her that, she says "I know how you are. Don't try to play me."
That makes me cry more. She doesn't even trust me. I don't know what to do.
Just a couple days ago we were fine. Then two weeks before she did the same thing. It's like a time-bomb. I'm so careful about what I say around her cause I don't want her to hate me. I don't want her to hate me. I don't know what to do.
Please. I love my mother so much. More than anything in the world.
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Best advice? Sit down and have a heart to heart with her. Bring both your parents in if you can to show that you mean business. Explain how you feel and why. Try to find a means to close the subject and come to terms with whats wrong. Best of luck dear.
Honey, how old are you? I'm guessing she is a single parent right? Anyway right now you need to know it's not you it is her. Understand that no parent is perfect in fact some can be pretty bad. Perhaps your mom is going through something... since she singles you out there may be something about you that remind her of herself. Who knows it could be many things.
Just be strong for yourself because in time this will pass. try hard not to let how she behaves effect you. I promise it is not you that is the problem. Pray to Jesus and ask him to help you AND ESPECIALLY YOUR MOM. Jesus loves you and he will listen. I will pray for you and your mom as well. Stay strong and just ask her if you can help her in any way... hugs..
My mother does the same stuff .... Just act like it doesnt phase you shell eventually give up