It started when I was in year four she punched kicked slapped and hit me and called me horrible names!! It's happened occasionally for no apparent reason and I am not gonna put up with it anymore!!! My dad and his GFknow and when it first happened they urged me to tell police but I didn't want to as I was scared! 2years later I finally told my headmistress and she did **** all about it! I a now 2yrs into high school and it happened again last night!
I want to go to police but am worried what they will do to her as after all she is still my mum!! I don't want hero go to prison I just want her to stop and maybe be MADE to go to anger management courses?? But me and my dad and even her parents can't get her to!!
Please help I am fed up of this I want my life to change for better!!
Thanks xxxx
Update:I have never had detention in my life NEVER handed in homework late or never not done hmw! She gets home at 6pm and by that time I will have cooked myself tea made HER tea and done dishes tidied up fed pets and maybe I didn't give you enough detail when I tell you she has a bottle of wine before doing this to me!!
U making out its my fault when all I've done is try to help her out as she is a single parent (but her and my dad equally share me) is very hurtful to me as NO child should be kicked slapped and hit!! To the extent I've had bruises!! So if your going to be mean like that and make out its MY fault I suggest you go **** your self as I have come here to try and find out my rights, NOT to get lamed from a worthless piece of **** like YOU
Update 3:I have never had detention in my life NEVER handed in homework late or never not done hmw! She gets home at 6pm and by that time I will have cooked myself tea made HER tea and done dishes tidied up fed pets and maybe I didn't give you enough detail when I tell you she has a bottle of wine before doing this to me!!
U making out its my fault when all I've done is try to help her out as she is a single parent (but her and my dad equally share me) is very hurtful to me as NO child should be kicked slapped and hit!! To the extent I've had bruises!! So if your going to be mean like that and make out its MY fault I suggest you go **** your self as I have come here to try and find out my rights, NOT to get lamed from a worthless piece of **** like YOU
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As it states in law 4 chapter 3 of the Penal code . Your mom has a right to discipline you if you behave badly
Don't just call police. Call child protective services. They will take more immediate action. Your father failed you in not reporting it himself.
They will come and talk to you first, take pictures of bruises, etc. (Important to call today, before the bruises fade.) Make sure they know it has happened before and that you have told others about it, just in case she tries to lie about it. They will then interview her. They will either have you go live with your father or may send you to a foster home. (Not likely) This is for your protection. They will likely arrest her and then she will be released pending trial. She will probably not be allowed to have any contact with you during that time, as she will either threaten or lie to you to try to get you to refuse to testify.
You need protection, even if she is your mom. What happens depends on a lot of factors, including her willingness to admit to the problem and who her lawyer is. It's possible you will be sent to live with your father full time while she gets help. But she could end up in jail. This is a time to be selfish. You have to take care of you. She is making a choice to hurt you and not get help for her problem. So whatever happens to her is her choosing.
Ignore 'hi there', he is a moron blaming a victim. If he is a cop, which I doubt, he is/was a very bad one.
You are right, it is NOT your fault. The people blaming you are pathetic excuses for human beings and I hope they never have children.
My advise to you is, stop acting as the town bicycle and do your school work and help around the house. I suspect then things will get back to normal in your house.I bet your mother is working long hours to maintain the house and I think she is tired out from it all, try being a good daughter for a change.
If you use that kind of talk to your mother, I am surprised she does not hit you with a bat. You have shown us all exactly what kind of person you really are, and you want us to feel sorry for you ???
I have read some of the other answers and I agree with the person that suggested you call the child protection agency. I would do it right this moment, so they can come and remove you from your home and take you off to some other place, they have places in hostels and juvenile reception halls. They are all full of juvenile delinquents so you will be right at home. Do you think for one moment that you are the only kid who has had a parent lose patients with them, well you are not and when you get older you will realise what a brat you were to your mother.
My advice is to contact your local domestic violence hotline/center or speak to a Special Victims Unit detective so they can give you advice and also forward you to a victims advocate.