okay so I'm having an issue, as you can see, my fiancé's ex "boyfriend" but she now considers him a friend. I told her when our relationship started I didn't care if she talk to this guy or nothing. Well lately this guy has been trying to get closer to her. His latest attempt " I really want to kiss you". I blew up and have asked my fiancé to please stop talking to him because of this, she has yet to stop... so my question is what should I do?
Update:She claims nothing is going on between the two of them, though I have seen her speak to him over 3 hours while I was at work, and you never know what is said over a call. Aswell she thinks I cheat on her ( she is very paranoid) though I have no girls I come in contact with anywhere except those in her family and I ain't about to do nothing with them because I see them as my family too.
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Well be honest with her in that you love her but you want her to stop talking to him for the sake of your relationship. He said to her he wants to kiss her, now that sends red flags. So just be honest with her, stroke her ego saying she's beautiful but then explain your issue to her. Ask her why she is not willing to end this friendship with her ex? This so you can get both side of the issue out there. I hope this helps.
"Cut him out of your life or our relationship is over. Yes, this is a make or break issue. This is that important to me. He is not a friend. He is your Ex and he's trying to get back in your pants. If you continue any sort of contact with him you are only encouraging him. Not behavior I want in a GF and especially not a wife."
You should move on, start protecting your heart, people who are paraniod are ususlly worried someone is going to find out their secret. you know what your gut is saying... go with it.