I met a girl back in November and we hit it off. I knew she had some baggage from a prior relationship but things were hot and heave the first 3 weeks. After 3 weeks she started getting a little distant but would always make an effort to stay in contact. We talked and she told me she’s not looking for a relationship and how she just got out of one and what not. I was and am cool with that however she wanted to remain friends. I was good with that because, hey she a great girl! The problem is since February we have been together A LOT. I have been trying to respect her and not make any moves or hooking up, yet she sleeps at my house in my bed with me at least 4 nights a week. In the past 2 weeks things, have been a little more relationship like I guess. We cuddle and lay on each other in bed now, she was just on vacation and she would text me and facetimed me a couple times. She includes me in all he family stuff and I’m going with her and her family on vacation this weekend. All in all she is my best friend and we have not hooked up since the first 3 weeks. I want to be with her like that, and she gives me the sings she wants that too but she does not want to commit. What’s going on here? What should I do?
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You have become her faithful pet. As long as she has you on her leash, she does not need to go looking for a boyfriend. Tell her that her friendship means a lot to you, but you need to find someone who can commit. You need a relationship that is bf/gf, not just for sex.
News flash: you are in a relationship. She just doesn't want to recognize it as one.