My fiancé is depressed ?
Ok so me and me fiancé were doing really well together then her ex decided to contact her because he wanted her back but she said no now she is depressed because she was in love with him and he totally destroyed her heart and I just got her to forget about him and she was happy for a little while. And now that he tried to get back with her she remembered everything he did to her and she threw back up all the walls and she won't talk to anyone shevwont eat and idk wat to do I want to beat the living **** outta the dude but idk where he lives and no one will tell me so I can't. And I need some help to get her back to where she will atleast talk to me again
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Therapy. Now. Nao.
She's not over him and can't move on until she realizes what is going on. Sorry to say that you're "second best" compared to him because there wasn't closure, he destroyed her spirit because he's a jerk, and she loved him which he used for all it was worth. Know the song "I will survive"? It fits here, listen to the lyrics. Guy tries to break a woman by saying goodbye, she recovers, he walks back into her life, she says hell no, get out of here. Your fiancee just got all the bad stuff thrown back at her, including her unrequited, undealt with feelings for him. She needs to go key the hell out of his car, slash the tires (another song applies here, "before he cheats" by Carrie Underwood), whatever she needs to do to tell him to go F himself and leave her alone, never contact her again, or she will ruin HIS life like he did hers. But failing that, if she isn't the type or whatever, then therapy. Definitely. She needs to work through it now before you go further in your relationship.