We used to get on beautifully, as I am quite independent, and he loved chasing after me, making diners/planning evenings, picking me up after work, ringing me all the time. Now he just plain doesn’t do any of these things.

I know he’s mad at me, but we’ve worked through it, and that’s done, and now he INSISTS that he wants to be with me, but refuses to plan anything, or demonstrate that he wants to me that he wants to spend time with me. Finally, he’s now started to winge that I never call him, but I want to see him all the time...which somewhat contradicts itself, and is the opposite of what a Cancer does, no?

I love him, and need to know what will put him at ease again with me, as I don’t want to be with him like this as I can’t handle the constant feeling of rejection...

I'm just wondering if I should be calling him (like he says he wants me to) all the time, or just wait cool and collected until he thinks I'm interesting again!..

Any ideas?

Thx Muchly!

Px