I can't figure out the motivation behind this question. Are you actually trying to find an answer, or are you looking for reasons to support your stance? Because if you ask that here, you will not ever want to change from how you are.
Yet life is about change. Growth. Your sexuality is not what you ARE. You will always intrinsically be YOU no matter who you sleep with, or if you sleep alone. Sexuality is only a part of who we are. And yeah, it's limiting in certain areas, and liberating in others.
If we cannot extricate love from sex, we will always be looking for love through sex, and love without sex will never make sense.
But then you ain't just playing are you? There is a choice and you just proved it.
In admitting how you arrived at the wrong choice by asking as if it's just a rhetorical question;
Stating: What's wrong with it? The devil tempting Eve and the whole human race, with such a question. What's wrong with it? As if God Himself, came down to rebuke you; You'd ask him, too!!
What's wrong with it? A fellow here, told you, 20 reasons what is wrong with it, knowing you have been burned and are looking for others to GET burned...See why you ARE worthy of being run from!!
You carry an infection, and you don't care, how sick can you get when you don't care what you are doing to others; AS YOU ASK, WHAT'S WRONG WITH IT.
Sad, in this case, one can't even say, "You can take a horse to water but you can't make it drink."
When the Truth be KNOWN, one would be, "Taking a DEAD HORSE, TO WATER AND WE ALL KNOW WE CAN'T MAKE A DEAD HORSE DRINK."
This IS R&S, what purpose have you got but to infect others with your perverted PHILOSOPHY.
that kills 'THE CURIOUS, with your question.
Just remember, religion is a waste of time, if you are going to write your own GOSPEL,
"In THAT DAY, THERE WILL BE TWO, LAYING IN BED; ONE WILL BE TAKEN, AND ONE WILL BE LEFT." Can't you see man, that you can't make the engineer of MAN n WOMAN, say, OOPS,
I MADE A MISTAKE, I SHOULD HAVE HAD ADAM N STEVE...
No, it's not funny, fanny. You're possess, with evil and not sorry, or ashamed, and KEEP TRYING TO JUSTIFY a lifestyle of infidelity to all, and mostly to your own selves.
20 reasons spot-lighting where you are going, and you are looking for some one to blame.
It is the Christians, drive them off a cliff, and that's why you are here, to bury the Christians.
And all we have to do is TURN IT OVER TO YOU. Why, look for a church, to find more CONNECTIONS??? You want to play devil's advocate?
START WITH ACCEPTING RESPONSIBILITY, FOR YOU ACTION, INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR AN ESCAPE GOAT, TO BLAME. Oh, no, it's not me, it's those Christians over-there, well, I'll show them. I'll tell them and if they say THE RIGHT THING, I"ll cry about how hurt I am, and, and, and.
THIS IS ONE, WHERE THE MORE YOU WIN, THE LOOSER YOU GET, UNTIL ALL WHO AGREE WITH YOU ARE TOTALLY LOST ALSO. And then, IS when the end will come.
God IS holding back the ICBM S' with their multiple delivery systems, because CHRISTIANS PRAY, so then the angels will gather the tares, away from the wheat.
YOU WON'T LISTEN, AND NO ONE ELSE WILL EITHER, BECAUSE THE END IS AT HAND...
What in the world is SPIRITUAL about your infection? Other then, there is no, conscious to have a decent and good conscious with? If pray would be answered, may you puke your green evil out,
but you'd only get back in the mud puddle, wouldn't you?
A PERSON COMES TO CHURCH TO REPENT, BUT YOU ALL WANT A CHURCH TO MAKE CONNECTIONS AND EXPAND YOUR FILTHINESS...
I don't go to your forum to preach to you all, then why come to those that hunger for righteousness,
with your exposed nakedness of unrepentant, to insult the community?
was working as an Master Electrician, for an Electronic Factory, It was noon, the middle of the day.
I was walking down the middle of an aisle, when the firmament of the heavens, spun into a pillar
and split into a curtain and drew up, revealing Jesus Christ, seated, intently looking at me, as
six others approach HIM, and gathered behind HIM, dressed in "WHITE GOWNS", the Glory of God
all around them, they smiled, and the heavens closed as they had opened."
True atheist, don't hang around what they believe NOT to exist, but antichrists do....
Excuse me, as I address the antichrists, whose church is described in Revelation chapter 13...
And who is an antichrist? 1st John ch.2:22" Who is a liar but he that denys that Jesus is The Christ?
He is antichrist, that denys The Father and The Son."
An Antichrist = 1st John 4:3 "And every spirit that confesses not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh IS NOT OF GOD: and this is that spirit of antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come; and EVEN NOW ALREADY IS IT IN THE WORLD."
A Christian would say that God made sex to create intimacy between men and women, and choosing to have sex outside of a marriage is misusing it against what it was intended for.
Despite what some Christians would have you believe, this is no different to choosing to have sex before marriage, or having an affair. It is not worse than these things.
Good point! It bothers me to this day how the catholic church says it is "disordered" and "intrinsically evil". I can see it being evil if someone is promiscuous or wants to spread HIV/AIDS, whether they are gay or straight. But I don't see the evil in loving another man and marrying him and serving him forever and being loyal. I support homosexual marriage and I am currently in the process of locating a new religion that is more open-minded. :)
Like my aunt and mom always say... You guys have feelings too... You guys want to find love eventually and have that sexual bond. Every human longs for that... They strongly disagree with the Catholic church being anti-gay.
I have tried chastity, but it has only lead me down the road of loneliness and hurt. I can't see myself being single forever.. That is not how God intended me to be. I was actually thinking about committing suicide over it. That is how bad I felt since my religion hurt me so much. :(
God says it's a sin. Sin has broken this world. People don't choose do be born blind, deaf or mentally impaired either, it's the consequence of a sinful world.
If it was a choice gay people wouldn't deserve any special rights or legal protection. It would be like choosing to dress gothic, you would be engaging in something thats shunned and is well known that people look down on it. If its not a choice then you are entitled to fair treatment because thats just who you are.
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I don't believe Christians believe in "choice."
But we all know homosexuality isn't a choice.
I can't figure out the motivation behind this question. Are you actually trying to find an answer, or are you looking for reasons to support your stance? Because if you ask that here, you will not ever want to change from how you are.
Yet life is about change. Growth. Your sexuality is not what you ARE. You will always intrinsically be YOU no matter who you sleep with, or if you sleep alone. Sexuality is only a part of who we are. And yeah, it's limiting in certain areas, and liberating in others.
If we cannot extricate love from sex, we will always be looking for love through sex, and love without sex will never make sense.
But then you ain't just playing are you? There is a choice and you just proved it.
In admitting how you arrived at the wrong choice by asking as if it's just a rhetorical question;
Stating: What's wrong with it? The devil tempting Eve and the whole human race, with such a question. What's wrong with it? As if God Himself, came down to rebuke you; You'd ask him, too!!
What's wrong with it? A fellow here, told you, 20 reasons what is wrong with it, knowing you have been burned and are looking for others to GET burned...See why you ARE worthy of being run from!!
You carry an infection, and you don't care, how sick can you get when you don't care what you are doing to others; AS YOU ASK, WHAT'S WRONG WITH IT.
Sad, in this case, one can't even say, "You can take a horse to water but you can't make it drink."
When the Truth be KNOWN, one would be, "Taking a DEAD HORSE, TO WATER AND WE ALL KNOW WE CAN'T MAKE A DEAD HORSE DRINK."
This IS R&S, what purpose have you got but to infect others with your perverted PHILOSOPHY.
that kills 'THE CURIOUS, with your question.
Just remember, religion is a waste of time, if you are going to write your own GOSPEL,
"In THAT DAY, THERE WILL BE TWO, LAYING IN BED; ONE WILL BE TAKEN, AND ONE WILL BE LEFT." Can't you see man, that you can't make the engineer of MAN n WOMAN, say, OOPS,
I MADE A MISTAKE, I SHOULD HAVE HAD ADAM N STEVE...
No, it's not funny, fanny. You're possess, with evil and not sorry, or ashamed, and KEEP TRYING TO JUSTIFY a lifestyle of infidelity to all, and mostly to your own selves.
20 reasons spot-lighting where you are going, and you are looking for some one to blame.
It is the Christians, drive them off a cliff, and that's why you are here, to bury the Christians.
And all we have to do is TURN IT OVER TO YOU. Why, look for a church, to find more CONNECTIONS??? You want to play devil's advocate?
START WITH ACCEPTING RESPONSIBILITY, FOR YOU ACTION, INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR AN ESCAPE GOAT, TO BLAME. Oh, no, it's not me, it's those Christians over-there, well, I'll show them. I'll tell them and if they say THE RIGHT THING, I"ll cry about how hurt I am, and, and, and.
THIS IS ONE, WHERE THE MORE YOU WIN, THE LOOSER YOU GET, UNTIL ALL WHO AGREE WITH YOU ARE TOTALLY LOST ALSO. And then, IS when the end will come.
God IS holding back the ICBM S' with their multiple delivery systems, because CHRISTIANS PRAY, so then the angels will gather the tares, away from the wheat.
YOU WON'T LISTEN, AND NO ONE ELSE WILL EITHER, BECAUSE THE END IS AT HAND...
What in the world is SPIRITUAL about your infection? Other then, there is no, conscious to have a decent and good conscious with? If pray would be answered, may you puke your green evil out,
but you'd only get back in the mud puddle, wouldn't you?
A PERSON COMES TO CHURCH TO REPENT, BUT YOU ALL WANT A CHURCH TO MAKE CONNECTIONS AND EXPAND YOUR FILTHINESS...
I don't go to your forum to preach to you all, then why come to those that hunger for righteousness,
with your exposed nakedness of unrepentant, to insult the community?
was working as an Master Electrician, for an Electronic Factory, It was noon, the middle of the day.
I was walking down the middle of an aisle, when the firmament of the heavens, spun into a pillar
and split into a curtain and drew up, revealing Jesus Christ, seated, intently looking at me, as
six others approach HIM, and gathered behind HIM, dressed in "WHITE GOWNS", the Glory of God
all around them, they smiled, and the heavens closed as they had opened."
True atheist, don't hang around what they believe NOT to exist, but antichrists do....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iXKIf2XOfA See what Albert Einstein, and others really said,
about God.
Excuse me, as I address the antichrists, whose church is described in Revelation chapter 13...
And who is an antichrist? 1st John ch.2:22" Who is a liar but he that denys that Jesus is The Christ?
He is antichrist, that denys The Father and The Son."
An Antichrist = 1st John 4:3 "And every spirit that confesses not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh IS NOT OF GOD: and this is that spirit of antichrist, whereof ye have heard that it should come; and EVEN NOW ALREADY IS IT IN THE WORLD."
A Christian would say that God made sex to create intimacy between men and women, and choosing to have sex outside of a marriage is misusing it against what it was intended for.
Despite what some Christians would have you believe, this is no different to choosing to have sex before marriage, or having an affair. It is not worse than these things.
Good point! It bothers me to this day how the catholic church says it is "disordered" and "intrinsically evil". I can see it being evil if someone is promiscuous or wants to spread HIV/AIDS, whether they are gay or straight. But I don't see the evil in loving another man and marrying him and serving him forever and being loyal. I support homosexual marriage and I am currently in the process of locating a new religion that is more open-minded. :)
Like my aunt and mom always say... You guys have feelings too... You guys want to find love eventually and have that sexual bond. Every human longs for that... They strongly disagree with the Catholic church being anti-gay.
I have tried chastity, but it has only lead me down the road of loneliness and hurt. I can't see myself being single forever.. That is not how God intended me to be. I was actually thinking about committing suicide over it. That is how bad I felt since my religion hurt me so much. :(
God says it's a sin. Sin has broken this world. People don't choose do be born blind, deaf or mentally impaired either, it's the consequence of a sinful world.
If it was a choice gay people wouldn't deserve any special rights or legal protection. It would be like choosing to dress gothic, you would be engaging in something thats shunned and is well known that people look down on it. If its not a choice then you are entitled to fair treatment because thats just who you are.
Whatever its cause, nature or nurture, it is against God's word and if you have such values it will be against yours as well.
Absolutely nothing.
It's just the closed-minded people with the problem.
there is nothing wrong except to people that hate you and want to kill you because they do not understand you.
The problem is not with me: the problem is with them and their indoctrinated hatred.