You should not judge or look down on someones actions when you have no idea how it is for them to do it. For example you can say your doing that wrong or poorly. But unless you have done it yourself how can you criticize him?
It's almost the same with DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY IT'S COVER...IF YOU ARE NOT A JUDGE. It goes the same here as ...if you are not a critic. Ofcourse you can't say that to them since iot's theeir job. :P Anyway, things that man say, do or show is either came from his brain (affected by memories) or just a typical sudden/automatic reaction (body memory). Whichever it was, the thing is it has a reason but it doesn't mean you can reason out a man for doing a bad thing - it's still bad whatever the excuse.Critizicing may come quickly from peolpe who don't know the person and if they have the interest to criticize, I bet they also have the time to know WHY.The thing is, the action may be brought out by having heavy experiences and that the person may be needing some understanding or even help which can change or even CONTINUE his life - THAT does make a lot more difference. So why criticize if you you can make a better wol to live in? And God said it's bad right? Talking about PUWING. :p
I have an interesting story about that, I met a prostitute one day, and she told me her story, and it was amazing, it was as if I was seeing through her eyes and experiencing what she did, I saw how she got to where she was at, and but for the grace of God or Life or whatever, it wasn't me, but I still loved her and sympathized with her, and did not make any judgments to her as it very well could of been my life. But that statement is a little patriarchal, it kinda of implies that women don't exist, part of the problem why a woman would end up like this.
It means, its easy to pass judgement on someone just by looking at them. However, unless you know everything this person is going thru and what's happened in their life, then you can't and shouldn't judge them cause you don't know what you'd do if you were him unless you too were in his same situation.
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You should not judge or look down on someones actions when you have no idea how it is for them to do it. For example you can say your doing that wrong or poorly. But unless you have done it yourself how can you criticize him?
It's almost the same with DON'T JUDGE THE BOOK BY IT'S COVER...IF YOU ARE NOT A JUDGE. It goes the same here as ...if you are not a critic. Ofcourse you can't say that to them since iot's theeir job. :P Anyway, things that man say, do or show is either came from his brain (affected by memories) or just a typical sudden/automatic reaction (body memory). Whichever it was, the thing is it has a reason but it doesn't mean you can reason out a man for doing a bad thing - it's still bad whatever the excuse.Critizicing may come quickly from peolpe who don't know the person and if they have the interest to criticize, I bet they also have the time to know WHY.The thing is, the action may be brought out by having heavy experiences and that the person may be needing some understanding or even help which can change or even CONTINUE his life - THAT does make a lot more difference. So why criticize if you you can make a better wol to live in? And God said it's bad right? Talking about PUWING. :p
I have an interesting story about that, I met a prostitute one day, and she told me her story, and it was amazing, it was as if I was seeing through her eyes and experiencing what she did, I saw how she got to where she was at, and but for the grace of God or Life or whatever, it wasn't me, but I still loved her and sympathized with her, and did not make any judgments to her as it very well could of been my life. But that statement is a little patriarchal, it kinda of implies that women don't exist, part of the problem why a woman would end up like this.
It means that being a man isn't that easy and you must think fron hid point of view before u criticize
It means, its easy to pass judgement on someone just by looking at them. However, unless you know everything this person is going thru and what's happened in their life, then you can't and shouldn't judge them cause you don't know what you'd do if you were him unless you too were in his same situation.
It means that you should judge those without looking at life from his point of view first.
Don't pass judgement on a person if you haven't gone through what he has.
It means don't critisize a man until you have been in his position .