Is there some online help(groups, sites) for a 27 year old ”spinster”, so that she get a boyfriend atlast?
Ok, dont freak out. If you look at me, you think I am perfectly normal, I ly to people I had 2 serious relationships in the past, and noone doubts my lies.
But the truth is I had one unshared love and a whole lot of heartbreak and never have been kissed...
It is difficult for me to relate to men, even doe in the beginning they are attreacted to me and when they give up, its cause they think I am rejecting them.
I need help!
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I was a late bloomer, too, so I can relate. I was terrified that women would reject me for my lack of experience, so I came up with all kinds of excuses to avoid dating and pushed away women who seemed interested in me. This, of course, only made me feel worse about myself.
In retrospect, all this fear was unnecessary. My first forays into dating, in my late 20s, weren't very successful, but they were good experiences and no one guessed at my spinster-ness. The first kiss, in fact, just happened and was surprisingly easy. I just had to make up my mind that I wanted it.
Still, it helps to arm yourself with as much information as you can. Somewhere on yahoo, there's a section full of dating-related articles. You might get some good perspective there. Try MSN, too. Also, don't be afraid to ask more experienced friends for tips -- they'll give great advice. Especially guy friends.
Hey... Listen I was 19 when I first kissed a girl, and have only ever had 1 descent relationship.. Every girl I have ever met has thought that I'm arrogant or stuck up!! but it is purely because I'm always uptight and worried about my life.. You have to loosen up and relax, see the interesting things about people.. People are drawn to relaxed confident people.. Try it for a week ; )
it seems like this really bothers you.
you can start asking guys out, take a class where you think there will be interessting people, including males, OR you can see a therapist, to find out if you are rejecting men.
What your looking for is not online...you need to loosen up, Take three shots of Tequila, and call me in the morning.
XXXOOOXXX there...feel better.