I’ve being dating with this girl for 3-4 months now, things are going very smoothly. However, recently I found out something suspicious. A week ago I found an email address she uses, which contains Eric.(her name)@livedotcom. I quickly became paranoid. I did not confront her about this, so I did my own little investigation (going through her other email accounts, looking at her sms). I found several emails that was dated 8 months ago. The guy calls “sweetie” “babe.” There were two itinerary to Las Vegas, and New York. Nothing recent while we’re dating though.

However, I did found the same guy on her cellphone recent (3 weeks ago) sms record. He said “99 sweetie.” My girlfriend replied “thank you eric, you too have a great night.” I remembered she didn’t pick up my phone until midnight and we had a little argument about she thinks I don’t know how to “handle her.”

I did some background about this guy since I know his last name. he is 52yrs old, while my girlfriend is 28, and I’m 24. He is a business owner etc.

I asked her about the email Eric.(mygf name)livedotcom, she simply lied and said it was her ex from 4-5 years ago in a different country.

What should I do at this point? How should I confront her?

The guy live about 20 minute away from her. i did not get his exact address, but I found the City he lives in.