When I’m visiting him he doesn’t want me to leave yet when I’m not he’s in no rush for me to come back, why?
Okay, I visit my boyfriend of 3 years (who I have known for over 4 years) almost every weekend (I have missed like only 3 weekends this year so far), and sometimes I will stay at his place for 1 or 2 weeks, but whenever I try to go back to my place he pleas with me to stay just one more day, sometimes I do then again he will ask me to stay 1 more day. However when I ask him if he wants to move in together he says no. Also when I am at home he is not in a hurry for me to come back to stay with him, why? Why? How come when I am visiting him he does not want me to leave yet when I am at my place he is in no rush for me to come back? I have asked him, he doesn't really answer so what do you think about this?
Update:He is 27, I am 25.
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Basically, he wants you around when it is convenient for him. And he doesn’t want to move in with you because he doesn’t want a real commitment from him. Think about it, he can see you when he wants and have you leave when he wants. You will still sleep with him, even though he hasn’t given you any type of real commitment. Why would he want you to move in together, let alone marry him? He likes to play house with you. He treats you that way because you allow him to treat you that way. So how long are you going to allow yourself to be used for his convenience?