You'll be single if you continue to look upon yourself as a no-hoper who's ugly. If you think you are ugly and tell everyone that you are, they'll believe you - just as you believe yourself. You aren't giving out attractive vibes so are pushing people away instead of enticing them with your happy, pleasant personality. Looks are nothing - confidence and personality goes a very long way.
Along with that, I suspect that the older you get the more you will come to realize that good looks don't count for much. I'm not saying that people who are downright ugly messes will ever look good to you, only that your standards for "good looking enough" are likely to relax with age and experience.
Will you be single for ever? That all depends. The fact is that you're not alone. Most people are just like you - they are only interested in people who are much more attractive than they are. So someone in your position basically has 3 options:
1. Improve yourself so that you can be attractive to the people you are attracted to.
2. Adjust your expectations and be willing to give people who are less attractive a chance.
3. Stick to your guns, don't budge on what you want, make no improvements to yourself (or find that even if you do make improvements, they aren't good enough), and learn to love your own company. If you are prepared to be alone rather than compromise in any way, that's an option for you.
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lower you standards
You'll be single if you continue to look upon yourself as a no-hoper who's ugly. If you think you are ugly and tell everyone that you are, they'll believe you - just as you believe yourself. You aren't giving out attractive vibes so are pushing people away instead of enticing them with your happy, pleasant personality. Looks are nothing - confidence and personality goes a very long way.
Depends on what you have to offer.
Along with that, I suspect that the older you get the more you will come to realize that good looks don't count for much. I'm not saying that people who are downright ugly messes will ever look good to you, only that your standards for "good looking enough" are likely to relax with age and experience.
Will you be single for ever? That all depends. The fact is that you're not alone. Most people are just like you - they are only interested in people who are much more attractive than they are. So someone in your position basically has 3 options:
1. Improve yourself so that you can be attractive to the people you are attracted to.
2. Adjust your expectations and be willing to give people who are less attractive a chance.
3. Stick to your guns, don't budge on what you want, make no improvements to yourself (or find that even if you do make improvements, they aren't good enough), and learn to love your own company. If you are prepared to be alone rather than compromise in any way, that's an option for you.