I know most people are going to say if you don’t trust him then leave. So try to keep that answer out. We have had our past with Snapchat. He was talking to his ex on Snapchat over a year ago and after I found out about that I ended up finding out he saw her twice behind my back. We stayed together after breaking up for about a month. THings have been good. But I haven’t asked to see his phone at all since this happened. He never goes on Snapchat around me, and I actually saw him on it when we were in a room together, I was on the floor getting clothes and when I stood up he quickly left Snapchat and went to a different app. This isn’t the first time I saw him on Snapchat, typing a message and then he’d leave the screen as soon as I entered the room. And when I confronted him about it he actually said he wasn’t even on Snapchat, though I saw it. At this point I just don’t want him to have Snapchat. But I can’t even really ask to see his Snapchat because everything deletes? I don’t know what to do.
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If he cannot be honest with you, then he either has something to hide, or he is worried how you will react if he was to tell you. either way there is no bright future in your relationship if you both can't get past these types of issues.
You have to lay the cards on the table and get rid of this sh@t.
Maybe some ultimatums need to be made if you are sure he is messing about. If he cannot be straight with you, then he is not worth your love.
She won't get back together with him, so he's chatting with her behind your back in hopes she will change her mind.
It's not rocket science.
And if you want to be the girl who is a dull replacement for the girl he's REALLY into, then stay with him.
Time for a long, possibly uncomfortable conversation, in which you tell him how that behavior makes you feel, remind him about the past issue, explain how this is destroying trust, and ask him if he can think of a solution. The asking part is critical, because it involves him in the discussion without necessarily allowing him to get defensive/angry.
Ask him to tell you the truth, confront him.
Ask him to say how he really feels and where you guys stand. He may lie and thats when you just go asking his ex whats up but maybe its not his ex he's talking to but still could just ask just in case.
Confront him before you do anything honestly because at least then you're not going behind his back snooping and you gave him a chance to come clean before you snooped.