We broke up two months ago. During our breakup I was real upset as he was. The right thing to do would have been to wait and let matters cool down however on the fourth day I was going mental and researched and found his house address. I went to visit him and naturally he was freaked out. He told me that it was now definitely over as he felt I had come to speak to his parents about him. That was not the case n he was left with a misunderstanding as he gave me a lift to the station.Since I have called him like three times and each time he says he doesn’t want to know, I sent him a detailed email clarifying the situation but he trashed it without reading. It’s been two months and my pain just keeps growing. Iv been away to three different locations since, hanged out with my mates and my dear family have even met new guys but I awake during the night praying he’ll call or return. Last night I got an idea that perhaps I should go visit his dad who is a solicitor and tell him the situation

Iv decided not to go….. why should I clarify myself. It will unveil in time if it’s meant to be right? Why should I force it… im going to get a better, sexier and caring man. Someone who will light the candle he blew out – no even better someone who wont like candles.!!!!