We met each other when I was 15 and he was 19. We had feelings for each other but broke it off before anything really happened because of the age gap. He came back into my life when I ran into him when I was 20 and we dated for about a year and a half before popping the question. We have been engaged for about two months but we haven't set a date. We live together.
I think it's ridiculous for me to actually be pregnant because I'm on the pill and we use condoms and if we don't use one, he pulls out. And that rarely happens anyway. But I definitely have been feeling off lately. I scheduled a doctors appointment and its 3 days from now. So I'm kind of anxious waiting. We were making out and I pulled away and he asked me if everything was alright. And I said yeah. And he kept asking me what was wrong. Then, I couldn't help it, I just burst into tears. Then he held me and calmed me down. When I still wouldn't tell him, he got pretty mad.
Is that unfair to him? I want to talk to him about it really bad, it's been hard for me to keep everything bottled up. But I was role that you're never supposed to tell a guy about pregnancy scares because it causes a ton of problems and I don't wanna stress him out like I am. It's not like he could actually physically do anything for me. Of course I'll tell him after I go to the doctor about everything. But I have 3 days in the mean time and a hurt fiancé, so was I wrong? What should I do?
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Hiding your feelings will probably bring more problems than if you're just honest with him. Plus I doubt you fiancé would be worried about a pregnancy seeing as you are about to get married anyway... Tell him how you're feeling, you should be able to share anything with your future spouse. It will hurt him more to be kept in the dark than to be stressed for a little bit.
Deffinetly wait untill after your appointment, then after you know or not it will make explaining things a lot easier trust me I've been there twice lol