How should I let him down easy? He´s married anyway but can´t get him out of my way!?
This guy who is very nice to me and he says he likes me, but No.1 I don´t like him but as a friend and BIG No.2 HE´S MARRIED, but says he doesn´t live with his wife since 4 years ago. He´s military and I just don´t want trouble. As I said , he´s nice and all but that´s it.
How should I tell him that I want only friendship b/c I don´t care how many years he´s been separated He´s married without sounding like a *****?
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just be straight forward with him (I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS NOTHING MORE).
You just tell him how you feel and be straight to the point with him. If he has been separated for the past 4 years from his wife there should have been a divorce by now. He has unfinished business and some baggage to unload for any woman to feel safe with him and that's the bottom line.
Be honest with him don't get railroaded into a relationship that you don't want or desire he will either accept it or back off.If you carry on the pretence that you want anything more than just friendship you will live to regret it.I talk from personnal experience,i am now living with the aftermath of a disasterious relationship.
You will not sound like a ***** by speaking the truth. Tell him that you do not do married men no matter where they live.
Ummm... HE'S MARRIED.
Don't worry about his feelings, because they're meaningless at this point. He's MARRIED and trying to cheat on his wife. This guy's a douche.
Just try the truth and stop worrying about the rest.
Who cares how he feels? Tell him to scram.
If he's not divorced, he's off limits.
Let him know you are better off as friends.
Please leave married men alone....someones heart is breaking at home