Okay, my fiancé and his ex-girlfriend dated on and off for 3 years. I knew her way back when they first started dating and I always thought she was a really pretty girl (not in a lesbian way). I was never close friends with her, I just knew who she was. Anyways, they broke up about 6 or 7 months before him and I got together. From the start of our relationship he told me that they had a horrible relationship and that he had no feelings for her what so ever.

About a month after they broke up, he came into my work (I work at a convenience store) and he said that I literally took his break away when he first looked at me. So a few days later he came in again and asked me if I was seeing anyone. At that time I was dating someone else so I told him that and he seemed so bummed out. Well a few months after that my ex-boyfriend and I broke up and my fiancé happened to find me on Facebook...as soon as I saw his friend request I remembered who he was. From the very first time he talked to me, I thought he was super cute. So I added him and within 5 minutes of accepting his request he messaged me and asked why my Facebook said I was single. I explained to him the whole thing and ever since then we haven't spent a day apart and talking haha.

But back to his ex-girlfriend...they don't talk anymore, he has her blocked on Facebook, but I just cannot imagine him picking me...because she is so gorgeous. He always tells me and reassures me that I am way more beautiful than she will ever be and that I have nothing to worry about. But I keep asking him (almost everyday) if he still has feelings for her. At first he kind of got annoyed by it but now that we have be together a year...he doesn't understand why I'm still asking it. It is getting on my nerves too and I know it's really bothering him. How can I stop asking him this? It's became kind of like an obsession.