Guy I’ve been talking to gets hickey?
So I’ve been talking to some guy for almost 2 months now. We spent every single day together and every second that we possibly could and we text nonstop. For the past two days he has been wearing his hood tied. He accidentally puts his hood down and I see a hickey on his neck. First he lied to me about it then he decides to tell me the truth over text. His ex gave him it in school. He said that she forced herself onto him but he let her do it. Now he’s in his feelings and upset because I don’t want to mess with his anymore. Even though we’re not dating, do you think what he did was wrong?
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You said you're "talking to" this guy and spending time with him, not that you're dating or in a relationship, so why does it matter?
Forget the hickey for a minute. You spent every single day together, and every second that you can, and you text nonstop, and you write "we're not dating." What's that about?
Completely forget about the hickey. You're spending all of your time with someone who doesn't treat you as a girlfriend, doesn't date you, doesn't take you out, and yet takes up all your time. I think you should really explore what that's about.
If a man doesn't treat you like a girlfriend after two months, why are you still with him?
And to go back to the hickey, he lied to you once, so what makes you think he's telling you the truth the second time, when he says she forced herself on him? There's no reason to think that's the truth.
I think you should reconsider this relationship.
No it wasn’t wrong. You aren’t dating him and you refuse to “take care of” him sexually, so you are out-of-line to try to demand he not get sexual satisfaction elsewhere.
If you want him to be only yours, then unzip your pants and let him hook up with you. Otherwise, hush.