Some would have called me a beta male, a loser, or just desperate. But after my last interaction with a woman I was interested in (who didn't reciprocate), well, I guess after so many rejections, letdowns, high hopes and even narcissistic behavior (on their part), without even being sore about it, something inside me said, "that's it, I'm done - for good". Don't get me wrong, I don't hate women at all, but if it's ONLY NOW that I have obtained my newfound confidence, realizing and recognizing my own self-worth (never-mind the years of absolute hell it took to get me here), I seem to have not only lost all interest in pursuing a woman, but am also now more cautious than ever of the thought of a relationship altogether (from all the previous head games, etc.). Is it even worth entertaining the idea of a potential relationship, when I can still live a very happy, fulfilling life without one (physical fitness, learning instruments, learning other languages, possibly traveling, other hobbies and on and on)? It's like me saying, "you wouldn't take me unless I was ALREADY at this point, so what reason do I have to take you NOW (and only now)"? Women, please help me understand why this is the way things work, and why it's the right thing to do, thanks.