So I’ve been seeing this girl for 2 months now I’m 21 and she’s 18, she’s given me a ******* three times now and every time I’ve not been able to get past a semi erection or a 3/4 election and the. I end up going floppy and she stops. The first two time I was pretty drunk so I just put it down to whiskey dick but yesterday it happened when I was sober so I’m really unsure of what’s happening, I can get kind of hard when I’m kissing her and even just looking at her. I am a virgin and this was also the first time I’ve done anything with a girl , I’m able to get an erection when I’m masterbaiting which I do nearly every day so I think that might be the problem but I’m not sure. Should I look in to getting Viagra because I don’t know what else to do
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sounds like you have a fear of getting erect and cu mming with a partner
Let me start off by saying it's ALL IN YOUR HEAD
Your a virgin and it's VERY normal for virgins to be nervous and stressed about performing. Even very experienced people get nervous and go limp dick.
You just need to relax and go at your own speed. The more you stress about it and worry is the worse it's gonna get trust me. Just explain to your girlfriend that your a bit nervous and instead of planning to have sex just simply let it happen on its own.
Masturbation can be the reason but it's very unlikely especially it being that you masturbate only once daily. But refraining from masturbation will make your penis more sensitive which can help you maintain an erection. Probably just stop for a week and give it a go. But usually these are mental problem vs physical.
And instead of focusing on getting hard try focusing on the feeling.
No masturbation does not make you incapable of sex. If it really did that no male would be able to have sex, trust me that's not it. If you are straight it could be you are nervous, or it could be that you are not as turned on as you "think" you should be by the girl in question. It is also possible that you are not straight. If you actually prefer guys at a subconscious level that would cause this issue.
You could be nervous
A floppy dick is God's way of telling you to see your doctor. The problem may be beyond the ability of Viagra to resolve.