So i haven’t seen the boyf in 4 months and i love him and miss him like crazy but we’ve also had some VERY difficult times since me going away, which is understandable.

He has got depression and is super protective and jealous sometimes unhealthily jealous but i adore him anyway. So he’s coming out to meet me soon and about a month ago i was really sad really missing him and i wanted some comfort from a guy i hadn’t had in months so i was lying by the pool and got pretty close like touching (but not in THOSE places) and he kissed my neck but i pushed him away and we did NOT kiss at all.

I didn’t tell him because i was worried it would push his depression over the edge and he’d end the relationship while we were still apart so if i was to tell him it would be when he came out to meet me.

I’m wondering if it is worth me telling him at all? He isn’t understanding when it comes to this stuff and although literally nothing happened i’m worried it would ruin the relationship for no reason because of his unstable mental state. I’ve seen many people out here cheat on their girlfriends/boyfriends back home and not tell them so i don’t want to be classed with them, but i also didn’t cheat!

Am i overthinking this? I don’t want the relationship to end so is it worth telling him such a minute thing ?

thanks in advance :)