This one waitress waits on me all the time at Denny’s and I go there by myself and for 6 months, I have been going there once a week and she talks to me with making friendly conversation so I asked her: “Hey by the way, do you have Facebook?” And she said: “Yes but I am not allowed to give it out to you. I don’t give any customers my personal information, sorry. I will just see you here and you can contact me that way.” Then she smiled and then I said: “Oh because I was going to send you that funny link which we were talking about and add you as a friend. I wouldn’t mind hanging with you sometime and going for a hike.” She liked hiking and we were talking about that and she just changed topic and avoided the conversation and said: “Have a good day. Come back and see me.” And when I left, I was thinking: “THIS GIRL IS SO FLAKEY! Why is it a big deal for her to give me her Facebook link? Does she not want to get personal?”
I can understand if I asked her for her number then she would say no but I only asked for her e-mail and Facebook and she rejected me! Why is that? She is friendly to me and talks to me but she wont give me her personal information! I saw her give another guy her facebook when she was on her break smoking outside and it made me feel awful like I am not good enough to talk to!
Answers & Comments
You are assuming that because she is friendly that she is interested. Let it go. She works there and is paid to be friendly to customers and she has made it clear she doesn't want to get any closer to you. The more you continue this, the more you will upset her. Always remember that it's her job to be there to wait on customers; she does not go there in hopes of seeing you. And it's not a matter of your not being good enough - she just isn't interested in a romantic relationship. She is doing nothing flakey - she's trying to politely let you down and you're not paying attention. I suggest you go to another restaurant.
Phone numbers and facebook pages are still personal.
Most big companies rules tell employees to refrain from giving out personal information.
Yes, they have to be friendly and yes they can make conversation but you never
ask them out especially with a big company that could get her fired.
Now if she worked for a small operation you could have done so with no issues.
Waitresses at Denny's are friendly because of the fact it incredibly is their pastime to make the shoppers experience at abode and because shoppers supply extra beneficial suggestions to friendly waitresses. a grin and a splash communique would not recommend she's drawn to seeing you faraway from the eating place. perhaps she's married, or perhaps she prefers females.