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First, most women DO like to socialize because they're raving sluts. The majority of those who don't are just playing hard to get. On the rare occasion you come across a woman who is not a bimbo or obnoxious cow, she's probably disgusted by the human race and wants nothing to do with the type of perv who would just ask her for her number for no good reason.

Hi there,

Interesting question. I personally would, and had done in the past. Unfortunately, in this time and age, there are too many negative things that could result from talking to strangers. But if I were a bloke, then it's a different story altogether. We might just end up best buddies. But that's not normally the case when a male stranger talks to a woman. Unless you're the barman, or the service people, then it's a different matter. I could talk to you all day. But I wouldn't give you my number either.

If you were to ask me questions like 'Did you do anything fun this weekend?', I would have freaked out big time. Why? Because I don't know you and I am not about to divulge my personal life to you. You might be a psycho. I'm not saying you are...but these things do happen. You get what I'm saying?

So, it is a tough world out there. Don't be offended if women didn't want to talk to you - we just want to be safe than sorry.

Just a woman's perspective. Hope this helps. :D

There are soooo many reasons!

First, you're a stranger! For all the girl knows you could be an abductor or something!

Also you might give off the vibe that you just want to get with her, and if she's taken, then of course they're not going to give a random guy their #.

They might think you're a creep,

And some people just are not interested in socializing.

Personally, I like to meet new people if they don't seem like a creeper.

;)

Firstly, talking to 'strangers', has been an ongoing taboo in society, especially in our age. My parent's taught me when I was young to always avoid talking to strangers just to be safe. Some factors do come into play, I suppose, when you make small talk with them.

And I suppose it's the mere fact that you ARE making and asking questions at an early stage is actually weird and freaky. In fact, don't start off asking rapport-seeking questions about them. The less likely you talk about yourself and divulge about learning more about them,at the first stage of meeting, the less likely they are going to trust you and would hence label you as your quote-unquote 'stranger.'

To start off with, use a statement (e.g. " Nice earring", " Busy day today..", "Cool city,huh?" The point is just observe anything about your environment that catches your interest and state it) and then go about telling a story of your statement.

And there's a secret to it!!!

The secret: you can talk just about anything! It doesn't even have to be funny/charming/charismatic etc. As long as YOU think it's cool, then the girl would think it's cool. Try approaching RANDOM girls and start story-telling things of YOUR interest.It actually is a lot fun and less scarier than it sounds.Practice it constantly(like 2 weeks) and within a short-while, it would be of second-nature to you.

Here's an example:

Me: Hey! That's a nice watch! Did you get it at a Mc.D's kids meal?(Say it in a cocky/funny way or else you would end up looking like an asshole)

Girl: BLAH BLAH BLAH I got it BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH

Me: Oh cool! Oh geez, I forgot to introduce my self! My name's gameidall, what's yours? ( Offer your hand for a handshake at this point)

Girl: Owh..my name is BLAH BLAH BLAH..

Me: OMG! That's a funny name! You know what I'm gonna call you weird-dork, cause your funny and weird! (tease)

Girl: NO!!

If you have to leave at this point:

Me: Hey! Girl, I;ve got to leave right now but you seem like a real cool chick,what's your number?

The girl gives you her number and you leave! If you don't want to leave and still hangout with her and say some quirky fun stuff, there's a whole bunch of material's out there in the internet helping you with it. I'll leave it in the source's section. Just google it.

I hope this helped a lot,

Gameidall

I love meeting new guys, and just strangers in general. That's a good way to make new friends. :) sometimes it can be weird to talk to a guy for just a little bit, and then have him get a little too clingy, so just make sure your attitude is nice, and that you are giving off a good vibe. Plus, we as women are trained to think that men are just gonna rape us, so the girls you're meeting might just be overly cautious. You seem nice though- I would talk to you. :) Good luck!

Ok im not a tramp or mentally ill. But i dont mind just casual small talk to random people. (as long as they dont look sketchy) But hey thats how you get to know people and you never know who youll meet. So dont say the only girls who will talk to strangers are tramps or psychos. Cuz im neither and my friends arent but we all do.

They perfectly judge and knows the mentality of the men or they were taught by their parents not to go to near towards a strangers. They obey the advice of their parents.

To be honest, your probably kind of creepy. Some guy starts talking to me about the weather then ask for my number is really weird.

Women are very paranoid about that stuff...we will usually date somebody that goes to the same school or at work because we know they can be trusted...It's hard to explain...it's just different for a woman...

I loveee talking to strangers! Strangers are just best friends you haven't met yet :) but some people are just too weird and creepy to talk to..