Why do most women not date/marry men who are total adonis’s/hunks?
Guys like chris Hemsworth or Jason Momoa or Chris Evans, etc. guys who are very good looking, very in shape and muscular and tall, and rich, and successful and funny, etc.
One of the reasons most women don't is that most men aren't "total adonis's/hunks." Then again, most women aren't supermodels either. If you get caught up on nothing but looks, you'll miss out on being happy. Sure, looks are important, but everyone has a range of what is acceptable. Besides, a good number of hunks and models who aren't constantly in the public eye have some severe personality flaws.
Who says those guys don't get dates? The ones you mention certainly do - maybe they just don't like to broadcast it.
Others who think they are all that may be too tied up in themselves to realise other people have their own needs and wants and that they don't always get to come first. Or maybe they spend so much time in getting the body perfect that they don't put time and energy into any relationship they might have.
The problems are that first of all, a guy may have been treated as if he was so good looking he didn't need to strive to be anything else. He may assume that the world is going to throw themselves at him because he's such a catch, and therefore he can be rude, arrogant, and just not try very hard. It's not always the case, but it can be.
the second thing is that it is in fact really annoying to be with a great looking guy when other women are always angling for him, even if he is totally in love with you and couldn't care less about them. It's like black flies in the spring, you have to keep swatting them away when yopu'd rather be doing something else.
So- being beautiful has its drawbacks for both. Most women certainly would like to be with a great looking guy, but the fact is, ultimately, all cats are grey in the dark and what matters is who they are not what they look like.
Chris Hemsworth and Jason Momoa are both married. Chris Evans, I sneakily suspect, is not into women (just a gut feeling I have).
Anyways to answer your question: Women do seek guys that are tall, rich, successful and funny ALL THE TIME. But they don't care much about if he's that in shape, and most women don't really like if the man is better looking than them.
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One of the reasons most women don't is that most men aren't "total adonis's/hunks." Then again, most women aren't supermodels either. If you get caught up on nothing but looks, you'll miss out on being happy. Sure, looks are important, but everyone has a range of what is acceptable. Besides, a good number of hunks and models who aren't constantly in the public eye have some severe personality flaws.
You think these men don't get dates??? LOL..
Who says those guys don't get dates? The ones you mention certainly do - maybe they just don't like to broadcast it.
Others who think they are all that may be too tied up in themselves to realise other people have their own needs and wants and that they don't always get to come first. Or maybe they spend so much time in getting the body perfect that they don't put time and energy into any relationship they might have.
there is a shortage of hunks.
perhaps there are not enough "total adonis’s/hunks" to go around. for "most women"
There is such a thing as too good looking.
The problems are that first of all, a guy may have been treated as if he was so good looking he didn't need to strive to be anything else. He may assume that the world is going to throw themselves at him because he's such a catch, and therefore he can be rude, arrogant, and just not try very hard. It's not always the case, but it can be.
the second thing is that it is in fact really annoying to be with a great looking guy when other women are always angling for him, even if he is totally in love with you and couldn't care less about them. It's like black flies in the spring, you have to keep swatting them away when yopu'd rather be doing something else.
So- being beautiful has its drawbacks for both. Most women certainly would like to be with a great looking guy, but the fact is, ultimately, all cats are grey in the dark and what matters is who they are not what they look like.
Chris Hemsworth and Jason Momoa are both married. Chris Evans, I sneakily suspect, is not into women (just a gut feeling I have).
Anyways to answer your question: Women do seek guys that are tall, rich, successful and funny ALL THE TIME. But they don't care much about if he's that in shape, and most women don't really like if the man is better looking than them.
Not sure about Chris Evans but the other two are married. Jason Momoa has been married for a long time. Women do date and wed total hunks.
Because they would rather date registered sex offenders with no job.
And if you think I'm trolling, then take a look around.
Makes me want to bang my head against the wall..