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My mom hates my Fiancee. It's not easy. You just have to do what your heart tells you. Your family is always your family and they will still love you. Just dont think that you will ever be able to take him to family events, it doesnt usually happen.

Are you close enough to your family to have a sit down with them and ask why they don't like them?

And if you do, take in what they say and listen and be willing to discuss it and see their side of it...

After all they do know you best, perhaps they see something you cannot as you are in the relationship and maybe a little blind to his faults.

And honestly you need to remember, family is forever, but relationships come and go...

Not to say your guy is not a nice guy, just maybe listen to your family and see what they have to say about him...

Maybe rethink moving in with him until your family knows him better and is more comfortable with this decision...

If you take your time and give this some thought, you can find a happy medium bewteen your family and your guy....Take your time...

Depends on how old you are really. If you're over 18, you could move in with him, but I would try to sit down and have a talk with your parents, see if you can get them to tell you what they don't like about him. Some communication between you and your parents and your boyfriend, but I don't really know. Anyways, sorry if this is not all that helpful. Good luck though. I'm sure things will work out eventually.

Your family means well, but as an adult, you have to make your own decision. If you want to move in with him, then that's your choice. If it's a mistake, you'll learn from it. Life is about learning from the actions that you take, and it goes on and on. A loving family like yours will still support you whether they agree with your decisions or not.

I think that you should just go with what you want to do. It is your life and you are the person that wants to spend your time with him not them. They need to understand that you are happy with him. If they really did love you they would be happy that you are happy with him.

Yea your family is just trying to be helpful and want you to do the right thing but I think that the only way you really learn in life is to go through it. Let them know that you won't mess up your life for him but you want to be with him. Tell them that you will always be there for them. Just make sure that by the end of the day you make them feel comfortable with your decision.

Depending on how old you are...how long you've been together and if he treats you decent...I would say hold off on moving in with him. You don't want to jeopardize the relationship you have with your family for something that might not work out. Chances are...if your parents don't like him...its cause they know you deserve better. Good luck.

It's not what they want, Look you weren't there to choose who your mother or father talk so don't let them controll your self and on the other hand sometime your family are right. Don't move in with him, that could be the biggest mistake you have ever made.

Listen to your family. They only want the best for you and will always be there for you. If you think they are being unreasonable try asking them what it is they don't like about him.

You are the person in the relationship. Don't let your family make the judgement call unless there is solid reason you are not telling us!

Depends on a lot of circumstances. Why doesn't your family like him?